Is it normal to get mad at my guy bestfriend?

If he's your best friend I would've figured you wouldnt hesitate to confront him about this. I'm naturally aloof. But anytime a friend has called me out on being so, I make an effort.

Is this love as in best friend love, or love as in "I like him as more than a friend but he does not feel the same way?" Either way, there's no point in getting mad. If he has no interest in giving you the time, then cut him off and put your time into someone else who will.

Not a sin, but pointless: if someone wants to spend time with you they will, if not, not

I used to have a guy best friend, but I had to dump him. We were close friends for roughly 12 years, but about a week before I was going to go back for a visit in my hometown he told be in fairly graphic detail what he would like to do to me. If someone is inappropriate with me I feel it's best to cut that person off.

i've had friends like that, as long as they respect common sense-type boundaries we get along fine. it's when people make assumptions about what someone means by what they say that makes things weird. I've been talking out of the side of my mouth to people for over a year on here and almost nothing was about you. I might have been talking to you without knowing it was you. I'm just passing time on this site. if you really think something you see here is about you or the family, please show me.