Is it normal to get jealous so easy?

Is it normal to get jealous so easy? I mean, my boyfriend said some girl on tv had a nice belly and I bitched about it for a whole month, even cut myself over it. Whenever there's a girl on tv who's showing even a little bit of skin or being flirtatious, it pisses me off way more than it should, and I can't stand it. I know he could care less, and I know even when he does say something, it's not like he gets a boner or anything. Nonetheless, he always tells me that I'm the most beautiful girl in the world, and he always calls me sexy/beautiful/or whatever. I'll get jealous over girls he thinks are ugly, even. Or there would be someone who I think is really pretty myself, and I just want to kill her, even after my boyfriend laughs and tells me how much more attractive I am. He's never cheated on me before, and he's honestly the best partner I've ever had. I've had others cheat on me in the past, but I never cared because I cheated on them too... I used to be pretty promiscuous, which is something my love really helped me through. Luckily, when he found out how I was, he was angry, but more so heartbroken, and he helped me become loyal. I mean, my love for him helped a bunch too, but I kinda had issues that I hadn't really told anyone else about at the time. So... I know that's kind of unrelated, but maybe I fear that he's going to go somewhere else because I used to go somewhere else to practically everyone I've ever been with? I just wanna know how to get jealous less often... But, is it normal to be that jealous? Does anyone think my own problems from before I began to heal may factor to this issue?

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Based on 16 votes (9 yes)
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  • Ellenna

    Your jealousy is so extreme as to be pathological: get yourself some professional help before you drive him away permanently

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  • yesnomaybeso

    I honestly would talk to a psychologist. I'm not saying this as a bad thing, but he will be able to help you through this, and you'll be way happier.

    consider it, really. psychologist are not for crazy people, but to help you with your fears problems! and they're way better than we are. you'll just be WAY happier with your life if you manage to get rid of this annoying fear

    meanwhile, i'd actually talk to your partner and tell him that you have insecurities and if he can try and help you. don't say you're scared he'll cheat on you though, just say you need to work on something between you guys to be even closer

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  • felixy

    You're just an especially insecure girl who constantly needs validation: "yes I am thin enough", "yes I am interesting enough", and so on and so on. If you lead a more fulfilling life, by focusing on creating things instead of just consuming them, there would be no need of constant validation.

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  • RoseIsabella

    You're not normal.

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  • heckleBucker2

    Jealousy is the most vile of all emotions. You are sicker than you think. Get help today.

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  • clevertrevor1

    Jealousy is a sickness and you need help urgently. I suggest that you seek advise from a professional in this regard, it will ruin your life!

    There is nobody on God`s green earth that does not find a bit of jealousy flattering but it becomes old very fast, then that person just wants to get the fuck away from you!

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