Is it normal to get jealous of my gf making out with another girl?

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So for the past 2 or 3 years I have encouraged my GF to loosen up and make out with one of her girl friends or a random girl we may meet at the bar. She has told me about multiple dreams where she makes out with her friends or other random girls. I thought it was really hot and have wanted to see this happen for awhile and experience it with her. fast forward to last Friday now and she is out with her best friend, her best friends BF, and 2 other guy friends of the best friend. Proceeds to get wasted which is fine and then make out with her best friend multiple times. When she told me about it the next day I was in shock, like I didn't believe her bc I never really thought that it was something she would EVER DO. After letting it sink in, I couldn't help but extremely resent her for doing it when I wasn't there as well as be extremely jealous of everyone else who got to experience it besides me. Is this normal? I just really wanted to be there and now feel really hurt she would do it without me, when I was the one encouraging her to do it from the start.

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  • agirlwithrandomquestions
    9 years ago

    Many times couples find out they're not as comfortable with some things they once thought they were. You can't blame your girlfriend because you gave her a green light to it, but I think you should explain her the situation. It is indeed very difficult to see someone you love share intimacy with someone else, and not all people are able to do it, there's no shame in it!

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  • howlsilver
    9 years ago

    Haha. Well the boyfriends of my friends are always jealous of me. Maybe because they always talking about me. One of my friend really likes me, and the other treats me like her sister eventhough where on the same age. Its pretty normal to get jealous of your gf friends. You dont have to be jealous cause shes all yours, her friends is just there to help her like you. She loves you and you should be friends with her friends too. Thats what we are doing now, we go outside and hangout with their bfs to know each other.

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    • KeepsakeDoll
      9 years ago

      Did you miss the part where his girlfriend made out with her best friend?

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      • howlsilver
        9 years ago

        Yes, sometimes. There are times I get jealous to the boyfriend of my friend too, cause I miss the time we had when she doesnt have a boyfriend and we uses to hangout everytime. Now that she has a boyfriend things changed because she must give time to her boyfriend too and have sometime alone with him and she has to follow what her bf wants. But im really happy for her and the guy is kind to me.

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