Is it normal to get into a serious relationship with someone so fast?

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I met my boyfriend three weeks ago, we became a couple after one week, we told each other that we loved each other after one and a half weeks and we just had two serious arguments the last two days. Now we are making sure that we don't hang out tonight because we need some time to breath away from each other. I don't want to loose him, I really do love him, but I am really scared cause it's so serious and that it will all fall apart, Is that normal??

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  • nagasonavimana
    12 years ago

    It's puppy love. True love is when you french kiss someone in the morning with the worst breath for at least year straight. True love is farting along with your partner in a crowded elevator to take the blame from them. True love means hate-fucking while arguing.

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  • bigguy2010
    12 years ago

    I remember this one girl... The moment I met her, I was CONVINCED I was going to marry her.

    Our 9th Anniversary is only two months away.

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  • pixie_dust
    9 years ago

    Well, I don't know if it's the same for you, but I met my boyfriend and within one week we were dating and within one month we were living together. I am an intuitive and the first night I looked at him and I saw into his soul and he was beautiful on the inside and three years later we truly do love eachother. I think it's because I found someone that I had known in a previous life already and we were naturally drawn to eachother. It has been said that the most important people in our lives we have had some kind of a relationship in previous lives all together.

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  • kitkatbar
    10 years ago

    I can't believe I posted this so long ago, We did love each other. Our relationship was on again, off again for a whole two years strait. We broke up 6 months ago.

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  • kitkatbar
    12 years ago

    Thanks for all the advice, we talked things out and we are still together. Things aren't perfect yet, but we are not arguing, we argued over something really stupid, and we are growing closer. I learned that it is still new and I need to take it a little slow, but I don't want to loose him so I am working on it. I think that he is just young and he needs to mature a little bit, I'm just not sure how long I should wait to start seeing some major maturity changes happening. He does try and he is understanding, I just don't want to have to ask him to do certain things. We'll see.

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  • helenjewett
    12 years ago

    Arguing so early on in the relationship isn't good.
    Try talking it out with him. What's going on? Do you honestly feel happy in this relationship? How does he respond when guys are arguing? Don't give your whole heart away until you know he's worthy of your love.

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