Is it normal to get increasingly mad at men in general?

Lately it seems like I'm getting increasingly mad at men in general. It's mainly because of their piggish sexual behavior. They let their sexual urges take over without regard for wives/girlfriends, their children, their jobs and so on. Then there's the matter of rape and sexual abuse to children, these crimes are overwhelmingly committed by men. I realize there are female sex offenders, but it's rare and usually involves an older woman being with an underage, yet hardly unwilling, male. While it's a crime, yes, it's not comparable to a man forcing himself on an infant, which happens so much and is horrifying.

It just disgusts me. Why can't men control themselves? Is anyone else mad at men for being pigs?

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  • Vampgirl

    Wait now, not all men are like this...I feel really upset to think that some of you can say this when I am married to a wonderful man. Yes I do agree that more men than women do these things but its society that is making them this way. Everywhere I look and in almost every ad I see on tv or every music video there always have to be half naked women! We as a society have become so blinded that we don't even realise that we are letting them expose and degrade women like this...and its all about money! How can you raise decent children to become decent men if everywhere they look they see this?! Women these days are only depicted as sexual objects there is no respect anymore....latest thing on porn sites are older women having sex with younger guys or mothers having sex with their son's friends, how do you expect a man to respect his own mother when she does this. It goes two ways in this world, don't tell me these women don't enjoy doing this cause they do, most of this porn is reality where another friend records the whole scene while the mother is having sex with the other friend its low man! But I do say there is no excuse for screwing with a child or for a teacher to do this either this I am against, and yes, I have to say its mostly men! But, there are good men out there, I have lots of male friends who are decent.

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    • Society didn't make them this way, nature did when they were given testosterone and a dick. Porn is reality?? Are you kidding me?? The women have to get loaded on drugs and alcohol just to come into work. Even the amateurs, there's a 99% chance the woman is high or drunk. I KNOW this for a fact. I used to be a stripper, I knew girls who were in porn and prostitution. Hell, even as strippers we were all fucked up all the time. We didn't want to do it, we did it for the easy money. We WANTED the money, that's it. No woman has to "sell" herself either, we didn't put that idea into mens heads, they did.

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  • Funny thing is, I have seen far more sex driven women than I have seen sex driven men.
    Just like domestic violence towards men, committed by females, males don't come forward when they're raped due to being ashamed.

    My mother worked a job that involved people like this, at one point she had to do it for just men, it was a men's help business type thing, and to this day she says she can't believe she viewed men as the predators more so than women, if anything they are just about equal. She heard so many hurt men try seek advice due to their woman's actions.

    Also, there are more women than men that have committed child murders. So sure, men might be the ones comitting perveted, pedophile actions, but they aren't as bad as actually killing children.

    So since you like to apply these to all men, how about I apply all the child murdering females to all women. By your logic it makes you as bad as a child murderer.

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  • pirate4rent

    I find it really sad that some people have so much anger and mistrust. I think its wrong to say that all men are capable of anything. In my experience men are much more fragile than woman, there just not allowed to express there emotions. When one of my girlfriends got dumped she cried on the phone with me for hours a few days later she was fine. Unfortunately a while ago now a guy I new got screwed over by his wife, she took him for everything. He never gave any impression of being upset but 2 weeks later he took his own life. Some people are capable of anything regardless of gender.

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  • Hopeful

    I hate to say it, but I have become bitter towards men lately, also. I think my anger stems from all the unsuccesful dating...most of them just want sex. I am so sick of feeling like I'm just a piece of meat. I can't believe how many men are like that. I'm NOT saying ALL men are like this, but I've met quite a few.

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  • eeveefluff

    become a lesbian lol then you dont have to deal with mens crap.

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    • I'm seriously considering it. I am considering having a female partner, I'm not totally sure about a sexual relationship though. We'll see.

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  • Darkoil

    Actually join my team and hate all women, its easy and you will feel so much better when you just let go and blame evrything on a stupid lady.

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  • dappled

    Paedophiles are more often men than women, but don't hate all men; just hate paedophiles. Every person who broke my heart was a woman, but I don't hate women. I don't even hate the women who broke my heart.

    My gender, as a whole, is responsible for a lot of things. But I, personally, am not. I shouldn't be judged for my gender, my race, or anything really. I should be judged as an individual. Just like any other individual. Like you. Like anyone reading this. Like anyone at all.

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    • I agree with you regarding judging people but in this subject it's not so easy. It's my thought that all men are capable of anything, it's just a matter of time.

      I also don't believe that all men who harm children are definitively pedophiles. What I mean by that is, I don't think every man that has harmed an underage child is actively seeking out or attracted solely to children, I think what happens many times is a man just can't control his sexaul urges and takes whatever opportunity is present (i.e. if he's alone for any periods of time with say a 14,15, 16 year old girl). That also explains how or why a lot of rapes happen, men just can't stop themselves. There's very few rapists that do it solely for the thrill, that is quite rare.

      I've heard of, and know, countless men who have lost their careers over sexual inappropriateness. These men had worked for years to get where they were, had wives and kids they were supporting, but because they sexually harrassed someone, couldn't stop looking at porn while at work or went further and actually had sex with someone (a client, a co-worker, or got caught with a prostitute, etc) and ended up being fired. What is wrong with you guys?

      A couple years ago there was 2 cops here who pulled over drunk women, had sex with them in full view of the cameras on their cars, AND let the women drive the cop cars drunk-this all in one night at one traffic stop. WTF?

      So much of the time when a rape or harm to a child happens, the people who know the perpetrator best tend to say that they NEVER thought he could do this. Women are married to men who rape children and they have no idea. This is what gets me, how do you know what a man has done or what he might do as it seems all of you are definitely capable of anything? Rape and molestation are the absolute most under-reported (serious) crimes, therefore the easiest crimes to get away with. Not everything that many would consider despicable sexual behavior is illegal either so it's not like I can do a criminal check and find out everything about any given male, so all of these things considered how do I NOT judge all men?

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  • EPR73

    Men will always have sexual urges... just ask your dad. I am confused on where your hatred is being derived from? Did you get raped? Honestly, mens sexual urges are something you can either try to tolerate and manipulate (lucky for you) or you can hate them for them being biologically encoded to have testosterone. Rape is an entirely different story and would be along side of you in the hatred of anyone that would commit rape, but to hate men for having sexual urges... really?

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  • Cobrakitnu

    I agree, it's disgusting. Obviously not all men are like this, but a great deal are. Even my fucking teacher's perverted. He literally touches his dick the whole time and breaths heavily while telling me, "Good girl." when I get a problem right, while touching my leg. I don't think you can avoid this.

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  • timebobbu

    lol u jelly?

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