Is it normal to get hurt?

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I love my boyfriend alot, I've done everything I could to keep him happy always.Even he loves me back but not as much as I love him. He doesn't care if I don't talk with him for a day. He plays games and gives it more priority than me. He ignores me for games and watches movies whole day instead of chatting with me. I don't have any trust issues he is completely honest. Even our families know about our relationship. But I get hurt that I'm doing so much for a guy,giving him my whole time and attention and he just ignores me. So what should I do? Is this a normal thing?

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Based on 27 votes (14 yes)
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  • Angelandme
    7 years ago

    Get a new boyfriend or learn to be more autonomous. Your boyfriend seems like he likes his me time, yes a day or two even especially if apart for long periods of time. Probably find someone as clingy as you with the same priorities you have.

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  • bubsy
    7 years ago

    If he gave you constant attention, it'd be worthless and your attraction and interest would fade. The healthiest relationships are not equal.

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    • divsz
      7 years ago

      Yes but until when should I wait for his attention ? He is mad for games but at the same time he says he loves me. The problem is I don't feel his love because he ignores me. If you love someone then you should make atleast sometime for that person.

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      • bubsy
        7 years ago

        I agree. You have to measure his value against his commitment to you. A man who puts his pursuits ahead of his woman is ideal, but not when those pursuits involve Call of Duty on Xbox.

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  • KiritoxX
    7 years ago

    Unfortunately, it is very normal for us millennials. Of course, there are those rare few who are treasures to be kept, who will treat you like the princess you are.

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  • DeadMrSunshine
    7 years ago

    Your problem is that you crave attention and you have selected a boyfriend who is incompatible with your needs. It is not his fault that you just have unrealistic expectations about him. You are the only person responsible for you pain. If I were in your position, I would take a step back and start seeing other people. You deserve to find the guy that will dote on you 24/7 and he deserves his gamer girl.

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  • beachgirl1210
    7 years ago

    Considering you have been bf and gf for some time, I would discuss your concerns with this person

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  • divsz
    7 years ago

    I gave him his space, but until when should I be like this ? I don't want to take away his space but atleast he should make little time to say that he is alive once in a day.

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