Is it normal to get feelings for my boy bestfriend

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My boy Bestfriend and I are really close, we sit next to eachother in class hang out at lunch and all that. We are always together nothing can separate us, he is like my brother. But I'm starting to get feelings for him! I don't want to go out with him, I don't want to like him but I can't help it! I get so jealous when he is talking to other girls, I mean he thinks I'm hot and I think his hot but that doesn't mean anything, everyone says we should go out but we always say no we are to close and don't want to ruin our friendship. But why do I have feelings for him, is it because we are to close?

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  • ready2rumble
    11 years ago

    Men are simple, ask him out. Unless he's gay, asexual or taken chances are he'll say yes, especially if he thinks you are hot.

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  • kjking.7
    11 years ago

    Listen give it a try.
    I and my girl bestfriend were in the same thing too, I had feelings for her from the very beginning of our friendship, actually before, and the same way you started to get feelings for him she did too, well it was obvious from my side that I liked her so there were couple of instances where we had intimate
    stuff, I mean not dirty but romantic.
    I tell you it made our friendship stronger, we werent in a relationship but it was heading that way, we both could see it. but none of us agreed.

    well the reason I'm asking you to go for it is that I lost her* the very second day we decided that we would go for a long term thingy, it wasnt a relationship, it was more than friendship, but less than a relationship that is minus the breakups,sadness or whateva negative in a relationship.

    *I lost her meant that her sisters and her mom got to know about our thing we had inbetween us, Im from India and its a bit conservative in here, and now we both are of the same college but dont see eachother now, n have parted ways. Not me certainly bt her.

    the thing I want to make clear is you dont know what tomorrows in store, just give it a try, hope for the best, and be ready for any surprise life has in for you.

    -Ps who knows maybe the guy has the same feelings? but dint xpress it the way I did in my case?

    anyways choice is yours!
    Best of luck. :))

    ~| Kiran Joshua.
    |In God is my faith, for he knows the best for me.

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  • BlackCcorn
    11 years ago

    Give it a go. They say we should marry our best friends.

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    • Anime7
      11 years ago

      Marry your best friends they said.
      It'll be fun they said.

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    • LittleTurtle99
      11 years ago

      But what if it ruins our friendship

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      • mindvomit
        11 years ago

        not going out can do the same. if the tension builds too much between you too

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      • kjking.7
        11 years ago

        I think it would strengthen your friendship than ruining it.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    This isn't Facebook. Yes, this is normal, so normal that I wonder why it even got accepted on this site.

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  • RaNdOmPoPcOrN
    11 years ago

    HOLY SHIT ITS LIKE YOU WROTE THIS FOR ME!!!

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    • LittleTurtle99
      11 years ago

      It's not asking him out I'm worried about, it's what other people at school are going to say because we are already how do you put it "talk of the class"? Aha.

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  • Deidrabff
    11 years ago

    Yes, it's normal.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    If you need a push to ask him out, here it is; If you miss your chance he's going to go out with someone else.

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