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So I've never had a boyfriend for longer than a month just because I get so bored with everyone, I wan someone to keep me guessing for our whole relationship. But idk if that's humanly possible... I try giving people chances, but they all are the same. Are my standards just too high? Or is this normal?
I have similar issues.
But what about you? Are you a spring of excitement and adventure? Other people aren't there for your entertainment - relationships are mutual. If someone isn't trying at all to please you, that's a problem, but you can't expect anyone to hyper beam you with attention and thrill and enthusiasm.
I think the kind of person you are wanting is the type of person who would call you a bootycall.
Think about it. what kind of men keep women guessing more than any other kind? the kind that make women think they want a relationship, when all they really want its to please themselves for a night and go back to their lives.
oh, and we woman are such fools for those type of men. We are vain and egotistical, so that when a man isn't really interested in us, at least not in anything beyond his own pleasure, we wonder why and then turn his lack of interest into an exciting drama. Will he call today? will he want to see me today? Surely he must be in love with me, so why won't he let me meet his friends?
lol. life with a man like that will never be boring because it will stir in you such intense emotional drama, you won't have time to be bored.
Normal. I find that once I know a person completely, they do get a little boring. However, the trick to fix this is space. Like just don't talk at all that much for like a couple of weeks. That way they have some stories to tell that you want to hear. Also, you should try letting a guy know everything about you. With your walls built up, he can break it down, and thus you can begin to be interested in him.
Alot of girls get bored of everything all the time.'im bored of this im bored of that'.maybe you should look at yourself to see if its just that nothing really interests you.and could be high expectations.idk what you think your hoping to find but theres really nothing miraculous that could happen.i mean people do stuff and things happen then you die.thats pretty much it.you just need to learn to enjoy the simple things and be glad you actually have someone.if you really cant find anyone you actually enjoy long term you could always stay hold up in an apartment by yourself with 50 cats.
That happens to me, too. All the time. But if you get bored easily, that might mean that you don't really like him all that much, just the idea of him.