Is it normal to get bored during sex?

(female) I'll go a few minutes enjoying it, it's fun, it feels amazing - but after 5 minutes I feel really over it, I want to stop and do something else. It's also pretty rare that I'll be up for it in the first place. Usually sex just doesn't sound appealing, unless it's triggered by something and I get the craving for it. I can't stand being with the kind of guy who just ALWAYS wants to put his hand down my pants when we're sitting around or something.

Wow, I sound like a horribly unappealing catch haha

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46% Normal
Based on 13 votes (6 yes)
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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    Yeah this sounds normal. Maybe you just come fast or have a low sex drive.

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  • sleepingbeauty

    Sounds like you need to change tactics! Why don't you be the one to initiate sex, instead of always waiting for the guy?

    Try taking a dominant role for a change, do the things you want to do, make him lay there and take whatever it is your doing to please yourself (and him in the process), talk about it, experiment!

    Otherwise keep the full blown sex for the odd occasion and otherwise tell him you'd prefer to just masturbate together this time. Basically whatever gets you off and is satifying, but just saying sex is boring doesn't mean you have a low sex drive.

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  • Take a book

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  • rawr123451

    You sound like you just have a very low sex drive

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