Is it normal to get back with my ex when i still like someone else?

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My ex and I were together for four years, and split up for one. In the time we were apart I met someone I was extremely physically attracted to (which is rare for me, I'm not often sexually attracted to people). I was seeing this guy for a few weeks but it didnt work out. We never had sex but we did do other things. I haven't spoken to this other guy since and I know there is no way that we'd ever rekindle things (this was about 6 months ago now) but I do still feel attracted to him. We don't speak but I see him out alot and I can't help but feel sexual urges towards him. But I love my ex deeply and we recently decided to get back together. Is it wrong for me to do this when I know I'm attracted to someone else? Or is it a fallacy that you are only attracted to the person you're in a relationship with? Is it ok as long as I don't try to act on it? What can I do to make these feelings go away? I'm 21 and female by the way.

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  • grace101
    13 years ago

    This is fine girl! Just don't act on it! If you know for a fact that the guy you are physically attracted to and you will never work out and you care about your ex then you should be with him! But just think for a minute why did you split with your ex to begin with and are you sure you wanna be with him

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  • poof!gone122
    13 years ago

    i did the same thing. and it sucks because i really can't make up my mind.

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