Is it normal to get back to your ex girlfriend and feel like this

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Well me and my ex have a long story, we broke up and got back together, then broke up and got back together and again and so on for a while.. All of those times we broke up was because she was getting confused and scared of stuff in the relationship and one time she cheated on me because of that insecure feelings she have.
We broke up a month ago then got together for about 2 weeks broke up again.. Because she didn't want to hurt me anymore and then! All of sudden about a week ago she realized how much she loves me. Now I've been hard on her this week but she took it well and showed that she really wants this, I've never seen her like this and she is doing sooo much for me. But after all that we've been through it's hard for me to trust her again and I love her, in a way I've never known before. She came back in a very good way and the things she say to me and do for me shows me how real it is this time, but still I'm afraid of what's gonna stop her from having her doubts again and freak out.
So my question is.. is it normal to feel this way? To love blindly but still being afraid of getting into this storm again?

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  • (:sweet:)
    12 years ago

    Wow u sound like my ex bf. Same story lol i think its normal u cant really help it uf u love somebody

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  • poppop20
    12 years ago

    I think it is normal bro, just put up a wall and dont let her have all of u yet until u can trust her, because this time if u get hurt again your to blame. my story is similar to yours except your girl came back. My fiance says she wants a new life and experience life, now u have to ask ur girlfreind, can she experience life with being faithful and respectful and experience it with. Or is the consequences to much for her to handle and does she still need more time to do her own thing.

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