Is it normal to get attatched so quickly....

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I tend to get attatched to Girls far to easily, If I like the girl she will be in my thoughts all day, it's not healthy.

My freinds think Im a player because Ive been with a lot of pretty women but the reality is I got ditched by every one of them and it hurts me inside.

Is it normal to think about someone constantly after a hook up, when you like them? I had a one night stand a couple of days ago with a beautiful girl and I cant get her out my mind. Yet I know nothing about her.

Normal, or.. ?

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  • plum6
    11 years ago

    Honestly I think this is all about ego and not about romantic intentions at all.

    I think you just enjoy the attention and even after sleeping with a girl, you kind of feel that you want them to commit to you even if you don't care at all.

    In my opinion you just want women to adore and desire you as much as you adore and desire them.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    My friend does this. I don't judge, I think it's pretty normal. There's people that get attached to inanimate objects... like love dolls. How normal do you feel now? :P

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  • Marisol
    11 years ago

    This sounds to me like you are desperate to be loved. Am I correct?

    I mean there must be a reason that you feel this way. Can you think of anything deeper? If you constantly feel as though you really like every one of those girls, there has to be a reason.

    Having been ditched by those girls added to your hurt. Think about all of this carefully. I don't think that it is normal.

    PS. I am the same.

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    • nowhereboy
      11 years ago

      I wouldn't say I'm desperate to be honest. Infact, before this one nighter I was quite happy being single.

      All it has done is left me feeling lonely and rejected.

      I'm only just starting to realise this behaviour isn't normal.

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      • Marisol
        11 years ago

        How could that happen all of a sudden?

        Maybe deep down you feel that all the time which you spent with all those girls was a waste of it.

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  • nowhereboy
    11 years ago

    If they are good looking/cute looking and pay me attention.

    That's about it to be honest. Im an absolute sucker for a pretty girl.

    I love the closeness more then the sex.

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  • Short4Words
    11 years ago

    I think it's normal because I do the same thing. Well, the amount of time I think about them is measured by the actual connection we make but I would try to deal with why these girls keep leaving you.

    I think you may be attracted to the fact that they like you and that's enough to pursue them, but do you think you're capable of loving them?

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    • nowhereboy
      11 years ago

      Honestly I'm not sure. I have spent many a time lusting after a girl and pursuing them for a relationship, then once I get them I realize i'm not even that bothered about them anyway.

      I think it's some weird confidence thing but it never seems like it at the time. It always seems like Im chasing the girl of my dreams.

      I know one thing for sure, I was quite happy before this one night stand. Now i feel lonely and miserable.

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      • Short4Words
        11 years ago

        How much do you really need from a girl to think she's the girl of your dreams?

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    I know a lot of guys (including my husband) that do this and I find it ironic that I know so many girls that talk about the kind of man that they want and that they want a man that will always think of them and worship the ground they walk on but when they find a man like that, the relationship is "boring".

    Blah, good luck, man.

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    • nowhereboy
      11 years ago

      Thanks I think I need it :)

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  • kelili
    11 years ago

    I have always thought that it was unhealthy to get attached. I think that people who can love and stay detached are the most happy even if my inner me says that it's impossible to love someone without feeling attach to him/her.

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