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If the guy is really sweet and cute and amazing and you just don't like him? Even if you don't have any reason to say no, is it still okay to reject him?
Yes. I hate to imagine how many friends I inadvertently friend zoned. The thing is we can't help who we like or don't like. Rejecting him is certainly better then leading him on. Not only would you be lying to him but you'd also be lying to yourself.
It's normal, and it's better to not give him false hope, but don't friendzone him perse, you never know what could happen.If you tell yourself you've friendzoned him, you won't ever go out with him even if you like eachother.
Of course it is. Just don't give him false hope, that's the absolute worst thing you can do. It really annoys me when my friends tell me they don't like these guys 'that way' and yet still constantly flirt and suggest things to make them think they stand a chance. It's just mean.
Yeah, if you're not attracted to him, you're not attracted to him. Just make sure that he is not confused as to the terms of the relationship.
This means:
If he makes advances, take them as a compliment but don't further it (just a simple "thanks" will do).
Don't let him pay your way if you two ever go out together. This gives men the wrong impression and if you don't reciprocate affection then he might become unhappy with you.
Don't let him touch yoiu intimately. Hugging is one thing but kissing and hand holding is a no-no.
If you don't want a relationship and don't feel any attraction to him, then yes. Other than that, if he is this good, it is a good question to ask. Really, all the good people seem to get rejected :(