Is it normal to forgive your cheating ex-boyfriend?

I am 20 years old, and my ex is in the navy. at the moment, he lives in a different state than me. because we couldnt physically be togeather, we texted everyday , called everynight. and he told me several times that he is not seeing someone else... until i saw on facebook he changed my name to a different girls. she said "baby, i love you so much.. we were meant to be togeather.. im so glad we have eachother." i asked him what it was and he said he thought id be mad...(WTF?) so i broke up with him in May and i miss him.. i want to be with him but i dont know if i should. :(

Voting Results
34% Normal
Based on 35 votes (12 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 5 )
  • joybird

    Grow up! It was on Facebook so you'd see it and dump him coz he was too cowardly to dump you. Public humiliation like that does not deserve forgiveness. Anyway, if he cheats now, what would he be like if you were married with a screaming baby?

    You're only 20 and you've had a luck escape. By the time you are 25 you won't even remember his name. Go out and replace him with someone decent.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • FocoUS

    He doesn't respect you. Find another guy you'll probably forget all about him.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • TyLee

    Yeah no way!!!!!! Do not go back out with that loser. You will totally regret it.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • emilydoll

    WTF no, you deserve better.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • TareBear20

    While it's normal to still have feelings for him, it would be dumb to take him back...

    Comment Hidden ( show )