Is it normal to forgive my ex?

so i have been dating this girl for a while, we had sex and i love her so much! i caught her kissing my best friend so i dumped her and after a couple of days she told me it was an accident and i forgave her and we started dating again! then while we were dating i saw that she sent a pic of her boobs to my brother who is younger than me in 2 years (im 25) we broke up again and now she wants me back! and im thinking of forgiving her, is it normal to forgive her and date her again?

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Comments ( 22 )
  • Mando

    SURE take her back that way she can go after your Dad next! Really - are you serious about even asking? She's unfaithful and has no boundaries.

    Take her back you'll deserve what you get ... "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice shame on me."

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  • iEatZombies_

    She doesn't want you back because she loves -you-, she wants you back because she loves what you do for her. If somebody is with you to make -themselves- feel special, rather than to make -you- feel special, they don't love you.
    Your gf loves herself, not you.
    Don't take her back.

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    • abouesbo3

      man thanks for the advice but im thinking of taking her back because i spent too much time with her, i probably wasted a lot of my life with her! i spent too much money on her and ive went through a lot with her! and her birthday is coming up and i was goin to get her a louis vuitton bag that i was saving up for

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      • NoraBaker

        iEatZombies_ said it all. You sound a bit like a zombie for your girl... :(

        She may have to eat you and take that LV bag for herself.

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        • abouesbo3

          thanks for the sarcasm bitch

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          • Hippie

            I feel ya abouesbo3, if you get hurt take note on your passion and at least you'll know your love was/is real and you're capable of it.

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          • chewy

            Is your ex hot?

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          • NoraBaker

            Anytime.

            Now *this* would have been sarcasm. Earlier I supported her comment and made a joke. Have a great day, Sir. :D

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      • Corleone

        Saying that you sound like a gambler who lost 10,000 dollars and who's not willing to quit until he gets his money back.

        Sorry man, it's normal your feelings for her are clouding your judgment, but I don't think this decision will make you happier. You loved her and she broke your heart. The best thing you can do is learn from it.

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  • Really, why ask if you weren't going to take advice? Your ex is a bitch, and saying "I spent so much money and time on her, so I don't want to split with her" is just a lame excuse. If you carry on with her, she's just going to keep doing it, and then you'll be spending "more" money on her, and "more" time with her, just for her to betray you, once again. WHy not end it with her to find someone that is actually going to appreciate you?

    Sorry to say, but you have every reason to leave her, then have, what I can only describe as a stupid excuse, to stay with her.

    She clearly isn't going to stop, and you're obviously being played for a smuck. You're her piggy bank, nothing more. You know what? If you don't end it, you only have yourself to blame for future misery, because you know exactly what she's like, yet keep taking her back.

    You need to man up and realize that you're being taken for a ride by pretty much a gold digger.

    Have some pride and self respect, for God's sake.

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  • chatter289

    dude, i know you love her but the fact that she kissed your best friend 'accidentally' and now sending pict of her BREASTS to ur brother? wtf dude.... HELL NO! I know love is not logical and ok you may disregard her kissing ur best friend but the brother thing is out of hand. Whats new, a pict to ur dad showing her tacco?. I mean logically thinking, would you want to marry someone who has showed her boobs to UR brother? what respect has she left? What respect has she for you to do the things she has done? This girl knows NO bound and I am rather surprised that you are even considering forgiving her. I mean she did not do those things to strangers, they were your family! Get some dignity and pride and tell that bitch to go and screw with someone else's family.

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  • jrbj

    she is such a huge fucking bitch. she is a motherfucker. a dick.and so r u for forgiving her.

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  • PrincessRaspy

    Heck No! Dont forgive her! Im a girl, if someone ever cheated on me once I would cut them out of my life. Especially with my bestfriend. And her sending nudes to your brother! Wth thats fucked up for her to send em' an for your brother to ask or did whatever he did to get em! If you give her a chance its just another way of you saying "come back in my life and hurt me again" this bitch is taking you for granted! You deserve way better! Reading this kind of upset me because you dobt deserve to be treated like this!

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  • kelili

    You're with a bitch!

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  • UhhhOK

    Ew. She's a slut. Don't waste your time. Next thing you will know is you'll have an std.

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  • rock-chick

    that girl got some skils essay!

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    • No, she has no skills. It's not that she has skills, it's that he has zero skills in knowing that she's playing him. Infact, he already knows that she'll do it again, so she isn't "skilled" at all.

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  • ForMyPeaceOfMind

    She only wants you back because in her eyes, you're a pushover! Yes, it's normal to forgive her, but don't take her back, she will forever play with your head and your heart!

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  • yesnomaybeso

    One time might be alright, but two? She's just laughing at you now x.x

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt

    Don't go back. Sometimes people do make mistakes, split up and it works the second time around.
    But this isn't a mistake. She doesn't love you, never will and never will have respect for you. She's disgusting.

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  • If you want her back, be with her. But if you want to preserve your heart and self-esteem, be very cautious because she'll likely do it again since you've already taught her that you'll accept her no matter how she behaves or treats you. Some people are into that though and that's okay, if it's okay for you. :)

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    • abouesbo3

      you're right, ill be cautious if i ever take her back, but im not sure yet, im still thinking about it

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