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My boyfriend visited his hometown and while there he had oral sex with his ex-girlfriend. He says he's sorry and that he still doesn't get why he did what he did. He says e doesn't talk to her anymore. Should I believe him? And is it ok that I forgave him?
He did what he did because he cared more about his own pleasure than being with you. You'd only forgive him if you don't mind him playing russian roulette with your sexual health. Don't believe a word he says - he WILL cheat on you again. And AS IF he only had oral sex lol. Like that makes it ok even if it were true? If you have any respect for yourself you'll get rid of this man ASAP and find one who won't cheat on you just because he had the opportunity to do it standing in front of him. You are right not to trust him. Trust yourself in this!
its normal cox guys are allowed to have sex with more than one girl to have their sexual desires fulfilled.
Anyways girl believe me when i tell you if he says its only oral sex dont believe him cox he would have fucked her as much as he can on that trip. A guy would not stop until he goes all the way.
I believe it's something that can be put in the past and worked through.. But it's really hard. Honestly, you deserve better. As others have said, if he loved you he wouldn't of given it a second thought. Statistically speaking, cheating usually isn't a one-time occurrence, be careful.
Tell him to show that he's sorry. Anyhow I think its dumb that he cheate on yOu if hes sorry
Personally, it is your choice! Though my hubby forgave me for a similar incident!!!
OMG don't believe him he doez not deserve u if he cheated on u... JUST DUMP HIM if u dnt u r gonna be miserably for the rest of ur life and u no y cuz he do it again and again and den its not gonna be good what would happen if u find out and u will be sad cause u will still hav it in duh bak of ur mind so i say u should dump him
All i have to say is that if he cheated he can't really love you. And by forgiving him it seems as though you want this relationship more than him... But if he really loved you he would never have made you hurt like this, nor put you in this position. As for what gowila said, i think if you don't feel pain about him cheating then perhaps you're in the wrong relationship (or else you're into polyamory...)
I can't believe u said u forgave that cheating whore. What an ass! That is not ok. You deserve better. He clearly doesn't care very much about u. And if he did it once and u said it was forgiven ten what is to stop it from happenig again? Your just gonna get hurt.
How can you even look at him! When they cheat they don't stop. Get a healthy relationship. You deserve better.
He is being honest, in a way, about who he is. Now you need to be honest about whether he is the one for you. I doubt it. But look at it as an opportunity, to get out.
You're not married, you don't have a family to keep together. Why put up with cheating? You deserve someone whowont cheat on you. Ever. There are men of integrity out there who would never cheat in their whole life. Get one of those and ditch this one before you have a ring or a kid!
If it hurts you then you should split up to protect your self from futher pain, but if you don't feel hurt then just stay with him.