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I have a great relationship with my boyfriends Dad and we often get physical with each other (tickling and play wrestling) Its just innocent fun but my boyfriend isn't okay with it. Should he be, I think so.
I see it.
What the dad is doing is taking advantage of how inexperience you both are. You, by being playful while getting you use to being touched by him, so when the day comes when he wants sex, you wont feel weird by it (you'll probably have developed a crush on him by then). Also, the father is relishing in the fact that even though his son knows what's going on, he doesn't know how to handle it properly, and making an ass out of himself. So while you're like, "Oh cool! My boyfriend's dad is being fatherly! Ugh, why is my boyfriend being such an asshole about it!" You're missing obvious signs of disrespect toward your boyfriend from his Dad; in other words, the father knows his son doesn't like when he touches you, but he does it anyway.
If you want to make sure the dad is being genuine, tell him that you two should stop wrestling/tickling, and such because his son feels uncomfortable by it; explain you don't want to mess with their father-son bond. If the dad is like, "Okay, I understand," and never touches you again, but still a great toward you, then he's a good man. If he's gets upset, tell you to ignore his son, don't let him control you, blah blah blah, or he touches you again after this talk, then you know he's just trying to get that ass of yours by being fake-fatherly toward you.
Ole dad is a horny old fuck. And he's getting in a lot of feeling up on you. How can you be so dumb?
If you carry on he will be fingering you next then playing with your tits, I think you know that and possibly want him to do it.
There could be situations where this is normal, but it's probably not a good idea for anyone. I mean, don't get me wrong, banging his dad would be super hot, but again, probably not a good idea.
Your bf seems to be the most normal. He is upset that another male is touching his girl. The fact that you are ok with it, I mean, I'm sure you've thought about climbing on top of that old man, it's not abnormal, just stop playing around with him. Unless you bang him, in which case, tell us the story.
No, that bullshit isn't normal! Your boyfriend's dad is probably some lowlife degenerate. Seriously, you need to respect your boyfriend's feelings on this one.
Did it turn you on? Cause my ex done the same but it was my step Dad and told me the truth one day after a feel asleep he touched her and she got turned on and they fucked each other
I dont think your post is bullshit. My bf Dad is always suggesting he wants to get me into bed, he's always feeling me up in a playful way.
I am attracted to him though and I cant help being flattered and turned on. I could easily see myself sleeping with him under the right circumstances.