Is it normal to focus more on my degree while still being single at 21?

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I'm 21 and have never been in a relationship, friends tell me im a decent person enough to have one. but i feel like i should focus more on pursuing my degree and find a stable job. but there's also a nagging voice in my head that tells me im gonna miss out on that sweet youth love life. i also can't say that im a straight A student, maybe average? what do?

Balance both the relationship and Studies 5
Focus and Grind on that Degree 18
Get a gf and forget about education 1
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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    If I had it to do all over again I would have focused more on my degree.

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    • ToffeeMe
      4 years ago

      Aweee. I do Agreeeee

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  • strangethingshappen
    4 years ago

    Mate I am 25 never had a relationship

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    • [Old Memory]
      4 years ago

      Shocker

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      • strangethingshappen
        4 years ago

        I reported you for condoning incestuous behavior. I'd rather not date someone I'm not attracted to, better yet I'd rather not Condone incest inclined behavior because I for one unlike majority of low life and degenerates on here have morals and a sense of right and wrong where as you and most others do need to seek therapy. I wish you luck because you're certainly going to need it

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        • [Old Memory]
          4 years ago

          😂 incestuous behavior omfg. Well watch out cause I might report you for all that moral compass talk you’ve been doing it’s very inappropriate for the youth.

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  • leggs91200
    4 years ago

    this just just a stupid thread.
    I know the owners are wanting to turn this forum into Cosmopolitan or some other boring mag but this just dumb.

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  • SKDM007
    4 years ago

    YOUR DEGREE WILL STICK WITH YOU FOR LIVE aswell as be the reason you get money and make a living for yourself whereas some dickhead badboy will just break ya heart

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  • Grunewald
    4 years ago

    Focus on that degree.

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  • ToffeeMe
    4 years ago

    I did vote that you can try to balanced it out both but you don't have to pressure yourself though, you're very young, preserved and far from being broken hearted so just enjoy reaching your goal first, time will come when you are contented with your life already Im sure, God will bring you closer to your destiny.

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  • libertybell
    4 years ago

    There is nothing wrong with not wanting to be in a relationship. Get that degree!🎓

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  • palehorse
    4 years ago

    Of the two, I'd wager you'd be more likely to regret blowing your education for sex rather than the other way around.

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  • Doesnormalmatter
    4 years ago

    Other - seek sex but not a commited relationship and pursue your degree at the same time. Working for me!

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