Is it normal to flirt with a lot of guys ?

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Is it normal to flirt with a lot of guys but like one the most ?

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Based on 130 votes (91 yes)
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  • purplegirl22
    11 years ago

    I am not a tease. I will only show an interest in a guy that I like. I hate girls that flirt with EVERY guy at a party, I mean if they want that much attention please have the word "slut" written in black marker on your forehead. There is a fine line between flirting and being an annoying tease.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      You forgot to write "permanent" before "black marker". They also need blinking arrows pointed at them. :P

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    • Francophile22
      11 years ago

      Speaking as a man (who hardly gets flirted with, perhaps some day I will figure out why but that's besides the point) I don't even know that I'd call that sort of chick a slut as much as a c*cktease, ya know, big on talk, no follow-thru, so if I saw that type I'd be very likely to set my phaser on *ignore* to avoid spinning my wheels over nothing.

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    • Ldizzy1234
      11 years ago

      And there is a very fine line between being a slut and being a tease. Some girls who flirt don't actually realize all the time that they're doing it.

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      • purplegirl22
        11 years ago

        Those girls I guess need to be more self-conscious of what they’re doing. How can you flirt and not realize it? Being friendly is one thing but flirting and not realizing it hints to me that the girl that is doing the flirting does it all the time. Therefore, since she does it all the time it has become a normal gesture to her.

        I think some girls need to be more self-aware of what their actions can do.

        I am a shy girl so probably why I don't particularly like the "flirty" girls is because they are a little too aggressive with the guys that maybe I’d like to show an interest in. But hey that’s just me :)

        I am a shy girl so probably why I don't particularily like the "flirty" gals is because they are a little to agressive with the guys that I show an interest in.

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        • Francophile22
          11 years ago

          Shy girls are the best, they don't have an ego as big as a freight-train.

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        • Ldizzy1234
          11 years ago

          Yeah, you do make a good point about that. But remember that sometimes the girls really are just being friendly, but to guys its coming across as being flirtatious. But yeah... sometimes girls need to be more careful. You're right, but not all of them are sluts though.

          Oh yeah, and no worries, usually the shy girl will get them in the end. ;)

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  • thinkingaboutit
    11 years ago

    whore.

    just kidding.

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  • throat_cutter
    11 years ago

    See i dont like this.

    When a girl sleeps with alot of guys shes considered a slut, but if a guy does the exact same thing, hes considered "gay"

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    11 years ago

    I don't see how so many people voted this as not normal.

    Being a flirt is normal and pretty natural as far as I am concerned. If you are unattached then I don't see the problem with having a little fun on the romantic front.

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    • myboyfriendsbitch
      11 years ago

      Not everyone feels a desire to flirt. I rarely feel enough interest in someone so as to... Uh.. show interest in them. But even then, I don't know if I would call that flirting. I'm just very shy, but that's just me.

      I think it's just as natural to do the opposite.

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    • Corleone
      11 years ago

      Yeah, I can't see what's not normal about this either. Hell, go to any party ever, and you'll see how common this is.

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  • Dot123
    11 years ago

    Just don't be a slut and lead them on.

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  • chezycheze
    11 years ago

    Well, I feel like you shouldn't spend all your time thinking about the one guy and you shouldn't spend more time thinking about other guys than the one guy. Like, it's most reasonable to find a nice balance that demonstrates that the one guy is the one you are really interested in.

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  • kit291
    11 years ago

    don't take it to far and get yourself raped because thats what can happen if you flirt to much and someone thinks you like them more then you do.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Part of what makes the Mona Lisa so valuable is that it's treated with value. Not everyone can reach it; there are prerequisites.

    But if the Mona Lisa was thrown into the middle of a New York intersection for everyone to gaze at, it would soon be treated as common and worthless.

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  • Tautou
    11 years ago

    Dalliance is a joy. Deep within our primitive red marrow it laments for relief, but don't let its ego overtake you. Too much is too good, trust. Carnal desires are best left suppressed for a time to be released on special occasion for special someone.

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  • GlassDarkly31
    11 years ago

    Just don't be a 'ho about it.

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  • Gunther420
    11 years ago

    It may be normal, but it isn't very thoughtful. Depending on certain factors, one might say that it's even a little conceited.

    Unless it's very casual, harmless flirting with just random people sometimes, then I don't see it as a big deal. But if it's repeatedly with people who you interact with on a regular basis, then I would say it's inconsiderate.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Having a Dissocial personality makes it hard for me to read facial cues, so i find it very hard to tell when a person is flirting with me. Everyone looks sad or angry all the time.

    Weird huh?

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I have a couple of friends like you; they are well-liked by most people, including me. They simply really enjoy the positive attention they receive from others when they do it, there's nothing wrong with that.

    I'm sort of romantically shy and I'm terrible at flirting unless I'm in an intimate relationship with the person. For myself, I feel like flirty sends out the wrong sort of signals and I end up feeling mega awkward when a guy ends up crushing on me when I was only trying to be friendly with him. I think that's caused by my lack of skills though.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I find it funny when all the dudes here vote this normal, then complain when a chick flirts with them and does not fuck them.

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    • Francophile22
      11 years ago

      Scuse me, we mostly voted that it was not normal.

      I know I did.

      I never complain, I know that 99% of the time she wouldn't go out with me let alone do the nasty, no illusions here.

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  • BlueJeansWhiteShirt
    11 years ago

    Can't believe how many people said this is not normal. Some people just have a flirty personality, including me. There's nothing wrong with it.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    11 years ago

    People used to accuse me of flirting when I was just being friendly.

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    • Francophile22
      11 years ago

      Ya, I was one of the clueless guys, so nowadays I don't believe that ANYONE is flirting, I ignore them all, for fear of reading something into it that's not there.

      A woman would practically have to attack me (in the nice way) before I took it as sincerity.

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    • Ldizzy1234
      11 years ago

      Same here.

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    • Unimportant
      11 years ago

      Ow, stop, you're making me blush!..

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