Is it normal to find your best friend attractive?

i find my best friend of 7 years attractive, were are both male. I am Straight so i really like him for some weird reason i think because we have been friends for so long is this normal??

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Based on 93 votes (76 yes)
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  • butidontwantone

    Well if you've been best friends for that long you probably know each other inside out, and have a really strong friendship. I see nothing wrong with it, I mean, my gay best friend had a crush on me and I'm the only girl he has ever had feelings for. Doesn't mean you're gay or anything, I don't think anyways.

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  • cv2011

    Yes

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  • 009

    Yes, this is normal. Sexuality is really more complicate than straight/gay. That's okay to feel like this.

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  • ruralfrights

    Sorry to say, but perhaps you need to experiment a little to assure that you are in fact a straight guy with a crush on his best friend.

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  • randomjelly

    Honey, if you are attracted to him you are obviously not straight and there is nothing wrong with that. Be proud that you are able to love a person for who they are no matter the package. Haha I said package.

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  • LyddyCool

    Completely normal. Two possible explanations.

    1 You have a man-crush, because sexuality is a complicated thing. This is your best friend and you like and admire them, and I'm guessing you love them as a friend. Guys have man-crushes, don't talk to him about it if you think it'll be awkward, and don't worry about it.

    2 You're not straight, you could be bisexual. Again, normal enough, depending about the community around you. Don't make a move if you don't think he'll reciprocate, and maybe explore your feelings a little, find out how you feel.

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  • zekethewolfy

    well im mostly gay i think it would be normal not shur about you thoe

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  • PEACEKEEPER

    u maybe BI

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  • Sheldon

    Ew!! You are either gay or BI. Just come out the closet and confess to him, and let him kick you in your nuts and laugh( as you slowly fall to the groung) then walk away. Your friendship will be ruined if hes not gay

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  • Tebagged

    No way in hell this is normal. U came out of the closet is what this is

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