Is it normal to find the majority of women unattractive?

Walking around the world in general I've come to the realization that I don't really find most women appealing in any way. Occasionally I come across a girl who is fairly cute and might warrant a second glance but I can only name a few instances where I've met girls who I'd even rate above a 7. I don't objectify women, but this observation kind of gets to me; one because someone pointed out it was gay and two because this doesn't seem to be the case with most men. There's this girl at class who's short and fat and has a pretty shallow personality but she's got like two guys chasing after her. Or when I'm hanging with other men in general and they make all these brash comments about how they'd like to get with these girls, none of whom I find attractive but they seem not to care - note they aren't after personality either as evidenced by the crassness of their discussions. They say things like, yeah she's a butter face but she's got a smashing pair of tits. Frankly that wouldn't be enough for me if I was going based on looks only, perhaps I have a low sex drive? I'm only 20.

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  • Energy

    Good luck ever being satisfied in life. Honestly, I'd feel bad for your girlfriend. You sound very hard to please, I'd stay away from people like that why waste time on such people when I can find someone who's happy and satisfied in life? And I'm a guy by the way, just stating if you were a women who was this shallow.

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  • infinite

    From much observations, there aren't many attractive people left in the so called civilized world. Physically most are sick, or at least it looks that way, either obese or displaying outward symptoms of being poisoned. Almost everyone is accompanied by a horrible stench of the various toxic body care products they use.

    Psychologically most seem sick, repressed, depressed, and terrified of life, exhibit no self control or rationality , constantly lie to their own selves, and lack any real drive, passion or will beyond those same self lies, repeated in the endless cycle that is.

    The few people I would classify as attractive be it woman or man are the ones who are strong enough to conquer the lies, sickness, and fear, and to be free of the self imposed shackles, to be who they truly feel they are without settling for the dumbed down, bastardized, socially enslaved version of life. There is beauty in humans who live free, and so much ugliness in the slaves who sacrifice their life to a lie and choose the misery of sickness.

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  • pala

    Well, if you will hang around at Sarah Jessica Parker look-a-like contests, you're going to find a lot of people who look like boiled horses.

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  • Go do Sweden/Denmark/Norway

    Your dick will do things you never thought was possible

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  • Thats because 60 percent of them are fat now!........

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  • bananaface

    You like what you like, it happens:L

    Do you know why this is, or do you just have a very specific taste, do all of these girls have a lot of things in common or what? What makes a girl attractive in your eyes?

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  • Unimportant

    Well, I'm glad I disagree.

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  • RinTin

    Beauty is in the eye of the beholder...(felt cheesy saying that XP)

    Do the girls you find attractive have a certain common quality among each other?

    I can't tell if you have high standards or if what you're attracted to is different than most so I'll leave it at that.

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  • purplegirl22

    Being picky is good sometimes, but not to the extreme. Guys your age just want to get laid hense the "smashing pair of tits" lol. My best advice is that unless you find guys attractive you are not gay. You just want a girl that has it all, and frankly you probably won't come across someone that fits your checklist perfectly. Looks matter to you because you are super picky, but remember that they at least need a decent personality as well.

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  • southcol

    The alpha male will call you gay if you don't openly objectify any and every woman in your immediate vicinity. The alpha male is insecure with who they are, that's why they literally chase the opposite sex.

    I have to agree with general "un-attraction" to most girls, but...
    I think attraction and selectivity is an outgrowth of individuality. The more developed and self-aware we are as individuals, the more we understand what type of mate we're looking for. Physique and personality seem to be interrelated.

    My question to you is, should "most women" be "appealing" in any sort of way? That's kind of an alpha male observation, isn't it?

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  • theabider

    I have to say, although I am a girl, that I can see where you are coming from. I think the problem is that these days, 90% of women just really aren't attractive. They don't keep in shape, dress well, or take care of their skin, and it really makes a difference. Fat pimply people can't expect to be found attractive. And I'm not picking on the girls either. All these skinny, blue-haired, tattooed, pierced-lipped guys don't do much for me either. Keep it natural people, and take care of yourselves!

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  • Anime7

    I don't think that you're hard to please, in fact I agree with what you're saying. A lot of women are unattractive. However, I know a lot of women who's personality make up for there outer beauty. I think that a lot of the comments on here are genuine in there beliefs, after all, everyone has a different definition for what is beautiful. Although, I also believe that most comments on here just don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. Either ways we all have a definition of what it means to be beautiful and we should all respect it.

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  • elliemango

    You're picky. Like me.

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  • Dreamcrasher

    Sounds like you got a case of the Holden Caulfields.

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  • Gardenia

    Don't be picky forever. You might end up alone brah.

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  • hottmess

    It could be where you live. I recently moved to a small town and population of attractive people= 0.

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  • screamrezy

    I'm a female who's 19 and I don't find the majority of men I see attractive. I just like different things then what I commonly see. I don't think its normal for a lot of people but it happens. Wanting to fuck someone because of looks is rare for me.

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  • jamesriske

    I think it's normal.I'm the same way. I'm picky and frankly, most women are fat. I'm married now and have been for ten years, my wife is very attractive. You just have high standards. Be patient and the one will come along.

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  • MissDethstar

    I think it depends really. Do you have overrated standard like an actress face and a porn star body or the typical average looking girl just don't attract you ? Maybe you just have your own taste and it's less usual then what other guys would like. I think it's normal and it has nothing to do with being a bad person but don't be too picky ! I got some ugly friends who wanted a drop dead gorgeous beauty and they are stayed lonely&virgin for a long time. Personally i had the same problem, all the boys my friends where going crazy for wouldn't attract me at all. Then i realized i liked odd looking guy all in black with long hair lol.To each there own.

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  • 14jakie-boyy

    You'll find a woman that you like, eventually

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  • NormalisBoring81

    Sounds to me that you have one of two issues, either you are extremely oversensetive about appearance, or you place personallity above appearance when determining attraction value. If you are oversensitive about appearance I don't have much for you, if you just place personality above outward appearance then I believe you are moving in the right direction. At 20 I would say that it is somewhat abnormal but ot a bad thing, as long as you don't blow someone off before you get a chance to learn about their personallity you should be good to go. If you need to have a woman that is a 10 just to talk to them I wish you luck in finding someone that has both personallity and looks and isn't already with someone that values them for both.

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  • Darrell-82

    At 20 i was tagging anytging and everything that had a pair of tits. 29 now and i feel that way.

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  • CalmDownDrinkTea

    It isn't gay unless you are attracted to men?
    So if you are, you're gay, if not, then you're not gay.
    Maybe you just have high standards or a particular set of traits that attract you. I suggest networking more, I'm sure you'll find more 8s or 9s then.
    And the thing about your friends talking about girls like that: they're literally just doing it for show. It's a facade so they can be 'one of the lads'. I do it with my friends but it's not in a serious context it's mainly just a bit of banter. :)

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  • Rebar

    dude don't over do it. guys say all that shit because they're trying to impress one another to be king of the mountain and all that.
    just don't try. find yourself attractive first. get some sunglasses or something. then...you'll have endless boners in no time for women. guaranteed.

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  • major_tom

    Great answers guys. I should probably note that I am not a misogynist in any way, I do care a great deal about personality but was just talking exclusively about appearance for the sake of this question so I figured I'd take it out of the equation.

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  • Same. There are only about 5-8 girls I actually find attractive. As for men, there are alot that I find attractive. I'm not homosexual despite what people believe.

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    • major_tom

      That's actually true about men too but I thought it would be going a little too far to post that. Thanks.

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  • TonybigCock

    Sounds like you would be better off, playing the pink piccolo

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  • im not picky as long as the girl is not to fat then im fine, but i some how always have fatties chasing after me and i don't like it I'll chat with them and that's it no more then that.

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