Is it normal to find outright feminism annoying?
Before you guess, yes I'm male. Big shocker right? Let me just throw this out before you label me as a sexist pig: I'm pro-choice. That's your body, not really any of my business. Now that we've gotten that out of the way...
Originally I thought feminism was a good thing. Women should be proud to be women, they should be empowered and so on. But if I say I'm proud to be a man, or that men should be empowered, blah, blah, blah, I'm labeled as a sexist. I like my porn; I stare at boobs, butts, bellies and legs. I won't outright fox-whistle/ holler at you, unless you and I are really good friends, and it's understood that it was expressed in a humorous manner. I don't believe all women are oppressed; I don't believe there's a patriarchy; I believe there are stupid women out there who have no idea what they preach. I believe women can be monsters, unfit parents, etc.
All that aside, even when I see on my news feed an assortment of feminist propaganda, I just get nauseated by it. Yes, yes I get it: "girl power!" now can you share something that won't subliminally try to shame me for having a penis?
I'm just trying to vent out my frustrations and asking if I'm alone here or are there others who share my perspective. Last thing: I want unbiased feedback, in other words, no feminist and no sexists.
Yes, I agree fully | 24 | |
Yes, but don't dwell on it | 5 | |
No, but then again to each their own | 5 | |
Sorry but I'm just not seeing it | 11 |