Is it normal to find it hard to be genuine

I find myself wanting to be real and genuine; to call people out when I think they're wrong and to call it like I see it. I find this hard to live my life this way because people seem to dislike me when I act like this, people think i'm being rude or something but in fact I'm just telling the truth. Some people though just have that ability to be real all the time, I would like to be that but don't know how...

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  • fleshling

    It's normal that you want to speak you mind, and you want people to understand where you're coming from, but it's all about your approach when you tell someone something that puts them in the wrong. They will immediately be on the defensive and think you're rude if you don't say it nicely ;)

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  • AngAnders112

    nicely said blurch!

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  • blurch

    Be you. Support you. Make you survive. Your survival should not depend on other people unless you're still a minor. In which case, be diplomatic until you're out on your own. Then you can say and do as you please and answer to no one. Try and avoid bosses. Be a private contractor or start a business where you only have you to answer to.

    There, I just fixed your whole life. :)

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  • Diver2

    You sound gay to me so start by sucking a nice juicy cock and get back to us here.

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