Is it normal to find him unattractive?

If I ever had a daughter I would like her to be like you, the same attitude toward guys.

He literally became someone's anus? That's terrifying!

Thank God there are still people like you out there. I cannot stand when all girls swoon over one very attractive guy, when in reality his personality is just mean and vindictive. Trust me, this is absolutely normal, even if it's not a social norm.

I don't think you understand the term "literally".

I underestimated humanity.

Personality makes the man!

Happened to me too. I had a crush on this girl although i never talked to her. Then we met and i had the unpleasant surprise. She turned out to be an arrogant superficial annoying cunt. Ever since i didn't find her even remotely attractive. She's the kind of girl people would say she's a knockout or gorgeous but her personality ruins everything. It came to the point i even find her repulsive because of that. I wouldn't have sex with her even if she payed me.

You sound like one of the few intelligent ones who can see through someone's physical appearance. This is a good thing. Those friends of yours will take years to realize someone's real beauty comes from their personality. So just ignore them, if they are attracted to assholes who are physically attractive then so be it. It's not you who is getting hurt by their stupidity.

You're way ahead of your friends. Trust me personality, a good one, can make an iffy looking person look like brad pitt sometimes. A crummy personality can make the best looking people ugly

I think it's a lot easier for a girl to do this. For guys, you're still attracted to her but you hate her. This is what the word "bitch" means, and the reason we say it so angrily is because we're mad at her but also mad at ourselves.

OMG T_T
You have reaffirmed my faith that there are smart girls in this world!
It IS normal, because you aren't just looking at him as a tender piece of ass, but as a whole person, body and mind and soul.
If he's not the lovely guy you used to know, of course it's normal to lose attraction.
Visuals are only a small part of real attraction!
Sometimes I am surprised by how nice or interesting a girl is, whether she keeps herself looking nice or not.

Now....why can't most girls be more like you and realize the douchebag/asshole/jock personality isn't attractive, lol.

that's what happens when your pumped with testosterone

its normal to find bad people unattractive......i've never met a good natured good looking guy

"ezronithefaggot" sure seems to know a lot about dicks!! I bet his daddy's been teaching him about dicks since he was very young. Who the fuck are "shane diesel" and "shorty mac"? Those sound like rapper faggot thugs, fucking monkey subhumans! True untermenschen! Yep, "ezronithefaggot" reveals his true gayness here, a true degenerate catamite bitch "he" is.

the look in your eye, I just KNOW you wished you two banged

Ryan is known to be THE most hung guy in your city, possibly one of the biggest in the world. his cock has been described as "like an evian bottle", with gargantual thickness that would rival shane diesel and shorty mac. im estimating his size to be at least 8.5" bone pressed, with OVER 7" of girth. he would have absolutely destroyed your fragile pussy.

You would have spent hours and hours on foreplay, getting yourself wet enough just so you can take it. i can just imagine you begging for it, with Ryan barely able to force it past the knob, and you moaning and squirming, demanding him to force it in deeper. You would have orgasm'd within seconds of taking the entire length, being filled and stretched right up to your cervix.. the orgasm would have been powerful, with your vaginal muscles clamping down on Ryan's throbbing monstrosity, your whole body quivering in euphoria..

i bet you still masturbate to the memory of it

Am a guy..and the same thing happened to me with a girl..i find her hot but not attractive

Yeah normal. There was a girl I went to school with, big boobs and big but and dsl. Smokin hot. Got to know her. She was rude and kinda acted tough (likr non feminin) never thought she was to attractive after that. On the other hand some girls I thought werent atractive, I got to know amd turmed out really being into them.

I knew a guy like this. In high school I was friends with a guy that went from being an average joe/nice guy, but changed by his senior year into this 'hot' cocky, popular guy, that every girl in the school wanted to bang. When he changed physically to be what 'every teenage girl' wanted, the person he once was 'inside', had changed completely along with his looks. And I no longer found him that attractive. His bad attitude turned me off. His cockiness became unbearable, that I couldn't be around him anymore. He annoyed me. It makes you realize that... maybe looks aren't really everything after all.

If a guy has a shit personality, in my eyes, his looks turn into shit too. He wasn't the nice guy I once knew. He turned into a superficial turd. Who wants that? Not me.

Its totally normal im the same way. A ugly personality takes away a pretty face

i'd say it's normal and better for you :) it would suck if you still liked him!! :)

Personality is more important for attractiveness than the pure look.

that's how love/attraction works. a great personality can make a 5 look like an 8, or a bad personality can make an 8 look like a 5.

O.K. Speak vietnamese I don't speak english

You are a lot more normal than your friends in my opinion.

I can't stand girls at times, I don't understand my own sex. But that happens mostly in the younger years. I was never that way myself because I just mainly paid attention to who they are.

My first crush he was a goofy sweet guy and he always dyed his hair "yellow" in grade school but I didn't care. I wonder how he's doing now. hmmm....

lol you say that, your properly just hurt because he rejected you.. or can do much better than you..

being cocky/arrogant happens when you become hot... your not used to it.. the phase will pass and hopefully ryan willl be nice again