Is it normal to find feminine men extremely attractive?

I've always found really feminine looking guys extremely attractive. It always seems like girls like macho and muscular guys, but I just can't seem to get attracted to them. I've always been a tomboy, but I'm not gay. I'm not really attracted to a feminine personality, that much, but feminine looks. It's like this for me: Short hair, big muscles, rough and rowdy = yuck. Long, pretty hair, skinny, elegant = yay! Is anyone else like this? Does it make me borderline lesbian or something?

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  • yup that's normal. I guess you'd need a man who could fill the role of the femminine side of your relationship?

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  • Jiovanie

    I can understand your preference. It seems your life likes balance. What a nice balance indeed. I myself prefer a more balanced guy. More so feminine though as I am one hopeless romantic, BUT as a guy I do like getting down and dirty still.

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  • Rachelle_InHighHeels

    Good for you... And they in turn, will treat you more with respect, and as a "lady" as versus these macho male "piggies" who only think of women for one purpose.
    I myself, am a long time married crossdresser with a very supportive, accepting,understandiung, knowledgeable, and she has taught me all the traites to emulate womenfrom presentation, walking, standing, sitting, hair, nails, make up etc etc, and I turn treat her with a ton of respect for not only be who she is, but for WHAT she is...
    Rachelle In High Heels

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  • themysteriousblue

    Sure! I know I do (from watching too much anime); everybody's got their sexual preferences; whatever pleases someone shouldn't be considered "abnormal" unless...it involves murder or the removal of limbs or something really destructive like that.

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  • rainbowsoul

    That's normal. I would'nt say I like feminine guys but I HATE buffness.

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  • PikaPuff

    I have liked effeminate men since I can remember. I think it's more normal to like effeminate guys in Japan, like what they call bishounen. I really like guys with long hair, and guyliner doesn't hurt either!

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  • CountryRoads

    Not meeeeeee

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  • squirrelgirl

    You're not alone. I too am a tomboy and I have always had a thing for effeminate guys. I love crossdressers and MtFs, even post-op ones. :D

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  • Darkshines

    Its perfectly normal to be attracted to guys with feminine qualities and don't worry I prefer guys with long hair and skinny too :D

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    • chewy

      then you would love me

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  • SavvySabby

    Sure it's normal. I don't find feminine guys attractive at all but a lot of my friends do. To each their own

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  • chewy

    no its just your preference

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  • Herrerarausaure

    Are you a manly woman?
    Even in homosexual couples (I'm not saying you are homo) one is more of one gender than the other.

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  • SweetandTenderHooligan

    Yeah, it's normal to like fags. All the girls do it nowadays.

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