Is it normal to find certain people stupid

I am very skinny and flat chested. That's just the way I am and I've always been. Some people are offended (yes, offended) by my flat chest. They make comments like "ew you look like a 12 year old boy" or "real women have boobs". I just feel like screaming at them "I'm sorry I don't have big boobs for you to enjoy staring at, it's not my f*cking fault, blame my genetics if you want, not me dumbass". But I don't say anything because I know it's pointless. Is it me or it's absolutely ridiculous to feel offended by flat chested girls?
Also I've had problems with people who keep asking me annoying questions like: "are you anorexic?", "do you eat?" or even "will go purge after this?". The worst part is these people are generally adults, grown up people. And they ask those questions being 100% serious. I think that it's incredibly out of line because, apart from being quite offensive to me, in case I was really going through an eating disorder those would be the most inappropriate, ignorant and rude questions ever. Am I crazy or is this people crazy?

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  • kelili

    Don't worry I have a size A breast(smaller because the smallest bra don't fit) and I don't give a damn what people think or say about my body. I have been said that I looked like a child but this too I don't give a f***. I love the way I am.

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    • KeddersPrincess

      Nicely said!

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  • NotFloydzie

    The comments you've mentioned above are some of the most disrespectful things I've ever seen in my life. I agree with you, it's completely ridiculous for someone to be "offended" by the way another person looks. I've never heard of this before, I'm stunned.

    I think you need to find yourself a completely set of people to be around.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    I hate people who ask me if I'm anorexic. I once had a doctor honestly believe that I was anorexic. You would think that with all of their ego they might have half the mind to know that I have a fast metabolism.

    But you're right, some people are just absolutaly stupid. I've learned to ignore them over the years. Most likely, if they are making fun of how skinny you are, they are probably jealous. Take it as a compliment. And the boob thing, they're just really immature. Be proud about your breast size. It doesn't matter how big or small they are. Breast are made for nurturing babies, not for the pleasure of men. People are always going to be stupid, but don't let it get to you.

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  • malkiot

    I like smaller boobs :3

    Go get them girl! Kick their arses, ignore them or whatever. Just please don't give in to them.

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  • GuessWho

    Honestly, I'd rather date a flat-chested girl than one with big boobs.
    When boobs pass a certain size, they actually become LESS attractive.
    The most important thing is that you're comfortable with your own body.

    It's not your fault - you're normal.
    You just happen to know a lot of assholes.

    You should get friends that will appreciate you and love you the way you are.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    Are the people that ask you this typically overweight or obese?

    If so, then I would bet that they are insecure with themselves or have been fucking brainwashed by this "Obesity is beautiful" garbage to believe that all thin people are anorexic and the only "natural" or "healthy" weight is overweight. No... beautiful is beautiful. Obesity is obesity.

    The ironic part is that a lot of these women that talk about accepting women, no matter which body type they are are the kind of women that talk shit about thinner women. I guess the only acceptance that they want is acceptance of THEIR body type.

    Personally, I love that small, pixie-like figure and perky little tits. I would take a woman that looks like you over some obese, skinny hating buffet queen any fucking day.

    I would hate to be the type of person that has to go rag on girls that are thinner than me to make myself feel attractive.

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    • I simply can't agree more with you. I have the exact same thoughts, but you managed to perfectly explain them in a few lines. Thank you for that :)

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  • maybe theyre jealous because they are fat and cant lose weight

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  • sexysonofsam

    A lot of people deserve the label "stupid" only because dumb ass has already been taken, fuck them all!

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  • ignorethem

    Just give it right back to them.
    "Why do you ask?" is good to say. Then don't say anything. The quiet pause will make them sputter and ramble and feel stupid. Just walk away. You don't need these passive aggressive idiots to waste one more minute of your life. If you want a tad of plastic surgery, you can go that route (if it will make YOU happy and if it's a little)
    But circling back to the jerk squad -- go deaf. This is why God made iPods. Have your favorite song ready, plug in and ..

    Ignore them.

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  • Maggles

    Adults are total assfaces! That's why I'm A Grown-Up not an Adult. They are stuffy,rude,secretive,judgemental,evasive and soooo grimy. Lie right to Your Face!!! Cuz "It's None of Your Business" or they are ashamed of their own Truth!

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  • flowergirl87

    It's definately the people making the comments, not you! Some people can be incredibly insensitive and inconsiderate. Some women have small boobs, some have massive ones, some are in the middle - what's the big deal?! Perhaps these people are actually deflecting insecurities they have about themselves... although the comments do offend you, it sort of sounds as though you're ok with how you are, it's others that seem to have the problem. I reckon you should stand up to them in future - they need to see the error of their ways. One day, they might say it to the wrong person - ie. someone who's more sensitive than you and less able to deal with it!

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  • Roxy:3

    Ur describing me!

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  • Unimportant

    Yes. The vast majority of people is painfully stupid.

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  • ygrowup

    Smaller girls and small boobs are great, but as you know you should continue to work on the eating disorder, for it is not healthy and you seem way to special to go on that way! I am sorry for dumb people hurting your feelings, but try to be strong and not let them get to you! For you are a special find!

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  • AbnormallyAwesome

    Yes, they are very very stupid.
    And I agree with GuessWho on the boob thing. Smaller breasts are like smaller screens: It's exactly the same when you move your eyes closer to it, and it's much more practical.

    This was also a very stupid comment, but at least a positive one :)

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    • "It's exactly the same when you move your eyes closer to it, and it's much more practical". Haha, that'll definitely be my answer next time someone complains about my boobs!

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