Is it normal to find a soul mate you've never seen?

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So it started December last year.
Okay, that's not right. Things like this can't be given a specific time frame to start with.

To be accurate-ish though, I think I liked him the moment I started talking to him.

Which is pretty much ALL we've done so far.

Why I'm writing this all down here is because I don't want to be judged. In a crunch? I think I've fallen in love with a person I've only spoken to.

We just completed 6 months yesterday.

I KNOW it's insane, and what I'm about to say has cliché written all over it, but it's just so, so different with him.
I can relate to him on this completely different level...I can tell him anything I want to. Mostly. I haven't told him I'm posting this. 0_0

He says we're best friends. We both think we're soul mates.

He loves it when I laugh.

And I've just always been scared of relationships. Maybe because we're so far away, and we haven't SEEN each other yet, I find this more comfortable. I don't know.

Hopefully, we meet in 4 months. We'd be done with 10 months then.

I love him. I really do. When I'm talking to him it's like I'm in this completely different place, and no, I am NOT a love-struck puppy. I know things might be different when we meet...they WILL be different, I'm just so scared of losing what I have with him because of that. It seems so special the way it is.

I posted this because I needed to vent out the tiny bit of insecurity welling up inside of me. Oh, and also because, I'd like to know if (duh) people think it's normal to fall in love..like this?

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  • Comm0nSense
    13 years ago

    you don't say how old you are.. if you are under 20 it's highly likely that it's puppy love. bc we all been there. also it'd be much more believable if this was a guy saying this about this girl he met

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  • angelsspike
    13 years ago

    Don't rush anything is all I have to say on the matter...

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  • Mellox
    13 years ago

    It's definitely normal to feel this way. But that is not love and you are too young to believe it is.

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  • butidontwantone
    13 years ago

    I think it's normal, it can happen. When you don't see each other and only talk you connect on a deep meaningful level, it isn't about anything superficial at all. Plus you get to know the person a lot better. But looks do count for something, no matter how much people like to say they don't so if you guys ever meet which you probably will, hopefully you like what you see.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ^^ longest sentence I've seen in my whole life. I think that it doesn't matter if he's behind a screens and that you love him. Everything will be clear when you both meet. It can go for the worst or the better. If he lied on anything, it's gonna go for the worst. If he said the truth I think your feelings can only grow, unless the whole not being able to see each other love is what your really looking for. Anyways good luck when meeting him, I hope it works out great for both of you. ( bring pepper spray just in case you never know )

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    its not love just a crush it might sound harsh or not true but it is just a crush you only speak to him iv known people iv only spoken too who i thought were cool but in person were difrent you got to remember there behind a screen they can say things easily in person it aint as easy this person might sound nice but maybe in person hes a dick you cant love someone you dont really know and you cant say you know him just by speaking to him on a computer, text or what ever if you havent met him or known him in person for a while then its not love this is just a fine example that love isnt real just something want to be true

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