Is it normal to feel weird when people are nice to me?

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I guess it is because I am used to people not liking me(heard because I look mean, or intimidating, or it could just be because theyre haters and jealous when idk why cause there are tons of horrible people out there and people like them, I dont get it I am not bad at all) so when someone is nice to me without looking at me weird or bad, I feel awkward...I dont know what to do afterwards like laugh with them? smile? hmmm. Usually I say what I want and people are like whatever and leave with a good attitude feeling good about myself because I dont care what people think anymore. Im over not being likeable and I just don't care anymore. So when someone is actually nice I'm like wait what? Like you actually didnt look at me weird? or laughed with me? Haha? I also feel like ok they like me so pressure for not letting them down and turn them into not liking me. Its like people who dont like me give me this boost of confidence I love and motivate me while when people who appear to enjoy my company pressure me to stay that way so I dont change their minds about them liking me. I just know that the people who know me love me and those who only know me by my name and face, don't. OH WELL.

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  • hairyfairy
    11 years ago

    It does feel strange when people are nice to you if your`e used to mean nasty type, as I had to put up with when I was growing up. The only times people treated me right was when they were after something!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Hell yeah I feel that way sometimes. If a random person approaches me nicely, I automatically put my guard up.

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  • Uzzie101
    13 years ago

    Yeah it's because nearly everyone else is a selfish, ego-tastic dickhead.

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  • Ldizzy1234
    13 years ago

    Haha! I get the same thing. In the past I used to have a lot of people in my school that would talk a lot of smack about me behind my back, roll there eye's at me, exclude me when I was little. Now, it feel's like everyone I meet is really nice to me. Saying I'm sweet, that they wanna hang out, etc. It makes me wonder if they're being serious.

    You probably are just so used to people not liking you(a.k.a. being jealous of you), that now that people are shwoing they do like you, you don't really know how to handle/react to that. It's normal.

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  • howaminotmyself
    13 years ago

    Tolerance is nice. I'm sorry you aren't normally surrounded by nice people, so much to the point you feel awkward when you experience it....nice people do exist.

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