Is it normal to feel "weird" after breaking up with someone?

Maybe she broke up with you because you're arrogant, self-absorbed, and shallow. It's kind of pathetic that four weeks is your longest relationship.

For the record, you aren't everything that all girls wish for. Only girls that are equally as shallow as you are.

she probably got fed up with how incredibly self centered you are. wow.
how old are you anyway? its hard to believe you are old enough to drive and own a house if the longest relationship you've had is four weeks.
newsflash; most girls don't want a guy JUST for his good looks, money, and cars ( only gold diggers) a real women wants a man with substance, sincerity, intellect, and a good heart who respects and loves them unconditionally. but you don't appear to have any of these qualities, you are self centered, a misogynist, and you probably care more about your clothes and fancy car then you ever did about her....if you were truly distressed over the end of your relationship, you would not be writing about how great you are - you would be humbled by heartbreak, and write about how stupid it was to let her go and how great and wonderful SHE is.
you probably feel weird because you are not used to getting what you want, your ego is a little bruised,
but why dont you just take one of our big bags of disposable income and buy yourself something to make you feel better, because material items are the only thing you seem to care about.
and why'll your'e at it, try to pull ur head out of ur ass.

I'm with everyone else. When I started reading this, I assumed you were a twelve year old boy since you've never had a relationship that lasted longer than four weeks. Then you went on to say all the other junk and I laughed. You're obviously not what every girl wants if you can't even hold a relationship more than one measly month. I sure as heck would never want a man who'd never been in a real relationship by the time he was your age.

Dude you're an idiot. It's that simple. A wealthy idiot but an idiot nonetheless. I'm a guy who is fortunate enough to make damn good money, but I would never ever tell a girl I'm interested in what I'm worth - it's immaterial. People have to decide what you're worth as a human being - and it's s figure that cannot be measured in money or posessions. Subscribing to a department store catalogue of style won't help either. Noone is going to even remotely like you unless you have personality, charm and a kind heart to back up your alleged good looks and money. Idiot.

4 weeks?? Woah. Could not have been much of a relationship. "Dating" maybe. You have a job, car, house, so you must be past your teens.

Is your question is it normal to feel weird she dumped you OR is it weird she dumped you? I think she's a smart woman watching out for her needs. Maybe she got tired of your talking about yourself ALL the time. I guess it's weird to you bc she was the first to realize she didn't want to be with a self-absorbed douche incapable of a lasting relationship. And she got to the punch before you did. Maybe.

dude your a fuckwit i mean you think everyones life asperation is to drive a bmw (which are boring cars only driven by losers like you to show other losers that they have money) and dress in pretenticious uncomfortable slave clothes. YOU ARE SCUM. but then again i shouldn't hate you, I should pitty your shell of an existance

excuse me guy, but if you're looking for sympathy here, don't waste your time, you're not gonna find any. Believe me, not even from men, especially not from women. And by the way if you want to live like Charlie Sheen, have at it, just don't expect a long lasting relationship if you're gonna act arrogant and stubborn and tend to get things your way. Watch Two and a Half Men and see for yourself.

If you hadn't explained how rich and good-looking you were then people wouldn't have realized your flaw was your attitude about the "relationship" you had with this one girl that broke up with you. Why don't you try to change that one flaw about yourself and start over in a new relationship that might be meaningful to you in the future?

You sound like a major dick. Just because you have money and can buy all this crap doesn't mean your above every other man out there. The fact that you've never had a relationship that's lasted longer than 4 weeks is really sad. That is NOT normal.

haha your such a douche. look dude i think its because your dating bitches and not women... only gold digging sluts want money and that crap. Women want whats important affection your time and a friend. you cant just wine and dine and be like that was good later and expect to have a normal long lasting relationship. but in any case like most of us normal men you probably enjoy your flings which is fine, but if you want something more your gonna have to buckle down and truly know someone. and whatre you so wiered out by she just did the breaking up for you. maybe shes the one who wont take your shit that you probably should be with.

It seems that this is a fake story and the guy is just testing people. When it sounds like a sheer sarcasm that it can't be real. :)

If I am wrong then I just met a walking caricature! :)

Maybe the problem is in your pants....

I don't even care if you're Bill Gates! that does not give you a right to act superior. Look at Donald Trump, he may be a billionaire but he's been twice divorce, the point is money isn't everything!. Now I listen to a guy named Dave Ramsey, a "money expert", he's only a millionaire/multi-millionaire but he knows how to keep a relationship together. He doesn't let his "money" get in the way of his relationship with his stay at home wife of over 25 years. Relationships are about trust, caring, love, not money or material items. OK

The guy thinks he's what, Charlie Sheen? Tiger Woods? Bill Clinton? womanizing, selfishness, will leave you empty spiritually.

Four weeks is my longest relationship because I never get to enjoy a girl longer than a month. I usually get tired or bored of them, then I break up with them and move to the next. It's not like I'm killing or stealing.

You are everything Sheep want to be not Men. You define your value based on material things, that is a hollow and sad existence.

get over yourself

It's cuz you have a small penis

I always broke up with every boyfriend I've ever had and haven't had anyone break up with me before. I might be glad if they did, though, because usually boyfriends are annoying and clingy and won't leave me alone.

You're pretty narcissistic... But yea that's pretty normal. A lot of people feel weird after being broken up with. Nothing wrong with it. Maybe she just didn't like your style..?