Is it normal to feel we are falling apart.

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My boyfriend & I have been together for 4 going on 5 yrs.... But we argue and fight all the time... The first time we met we argued n I punched him in the chest n he swore he was having an asthma attack but doesn't have asthma... Lol... He wasn't my 1st he was mi 2nd but it feels like it... I love him more than my first & 1st has my innocence but I don't care in my eyes my boyfriend is my first... But I don't think he sees that... I feel like I'm not the girl for him NEmore... He wants a girl who's close with his mom, goes to his family functions & does the whole I love u b4 hanging up the phone... Truthfully I like his mom but Idk how to begin a friendship with her she's a person who seems like she doesn't get too close to girlfriends but she's always nice to me. Meeting his family scares me a little I think they may judge me or something or not like me. I feel like at times I'm not good enough for him... Idk y I just think I'm holding him bk from a lot like he should be single or dating girls and not tied down with me. I love him but I feel like we are growing apart, we don't talk, we rarely see each other becuz both of u's wrk and I'm in college. I know he loves me but I just have thoughts sometimes.....if we were to break up I'd probably beat his new girlfriend up & be heartbroken if he were with someone else. I just feel like he takes me for granted and... Omg it's so hard to explain everything so u would truly understand but for the most part that's the jest of it.

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  • LifeofLoneliness
    12 years ago

    Having such strong feelings is something I realy understand. I'm guessing the arguments are petty ones that shouldn't realy be there. There seems to be a lot of self doubt in yourself, again something I understand. Your choices are simple let go of him or fight the battle. From what I understand, I hope you choose the latter and fight the battle. Talk to him calmly, honestly and don't hold back. Be as precise as you can. This being the girl his mum likes bit... it's him you want to be with. Just be polite to his mum and family and take them with a pinch of salt. If you think your holding him back, then maybe your holding both of you back? See yourself how you want him to see you. And remember... talk to him openly and honestly.

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    • Memehoney
      12 years ago

      Thanks for commenting on my post. I know that I love him and when I'm not with him I'm unhappy and I really miss him. Before me he wasnt a good guy, had a really bad attitude, and bottled his feeling up because he had his heart broken before. Yet, once he saw me fighting for us he knew I really loved him and began to change. I would fight an army for him and I couldnt see myself anyone but him nor could I stand to see him with anyone else. We argue over nonsense but I know where his heart is. I just needed a bit of advice from people who dont know us personally.

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  • InsertBlankHere
    12 years ago

    Mr. Right is a myth.

    You're more likely to find Bigfoot.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    If you were really meant to be with him, then it wouldn't be this much of a struggle. it's time to let this go. You should be spending time trying to find Mr Right.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Usually if you have this feeling, there is more than one reason why, if he is the guy for you, don't let him slip away, seek after him, and take his mind off all others but you!

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