Is it normal to feel used if you love a girl and try your very best...

Is it normal to feel used if you love a girl and try your very best to make her happy, But on day she meets a friend of your's and he flirts with her so much the old shy girl I loved changed and it broke my heart to see them together the way they were...

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Based on 66 votes (53 yes)
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Comments ( 7 )
  • LostAndBroken

    This sort of thing has happened to me a couple of times and it f@#$^&* hurts! Absolutely breaks your heart.

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  • Imsupernormal

    Stupid.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Just masturbate over the memory of her. I still masturbated over the memory of a girl i used to like even after i found out she was a big racist. It just made the thoughts of her more intense like i was torturing her but when i came oh my daze it was pretty awesome.

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  • jucedaguy

    Kick them both to the curb, he doesn't sound like much of a mate if he is flirting with your girl.

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    • Unknown1Person

      That's the thing, She doesn't know that I love her, I'm too shy to tell her but now I just feel sorry for her...

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      • VioletTrees

        You feel sorry for her because she found somebody she's not shy with? You didn't ask her out, and frankly, if she "changed" so much with your friend, it doesn't sound like she would've been interested anyway. Back off and find somebody else.

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      • jucedaguy

        What about your mate, coz he shouldn't do that if he knows you like her.
        Also mate ill be honest, the key to getting out of the friendzone or not being there in the first place. CONFIDENCE! Try though, not to confuse it with swag. Swag is for players.
        I learnt the confidence thing in pretty much they same way as you describe in your story.
        Just like petting a large dog, don't show fear. Girls pick that shit up straight away. Just be confident in exactly who you are as a person.

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