Is it normal to feel upset about this?

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I feel like it's not fair that my sister gets to do everything before me just because she's older. She just got married out of nowhere, after having a lot of problems with the guy. And though I'm taken aback, im happy for her. But I really don't want her to have kids before me. I have a more stable relationship with my guy for 5 years. I've also had a baby name picked out for 6 years, and I found out earlier this year that my sister likes the same name and I will be crushed if she gets to use it before I do.
I really want kids, but I'd like to wait about year or two. Now that shes married, I'm afraid its going to happen for her first...

Is it normal to feel this way?
I wish I could be happy for her, but I feel like she's taking away some of my happiness at the same time.

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Based on 19 votes (14 yes)
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  • Internecine
    12 years ago

    She's also likely to die before you. Don't be jealous.

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    • loveechelle
      11 years ago

      Lol

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  • bigbob101
    12 years ago

    LOL its not normal at jealousy is ones biggest enemy if shit happens let it happen dont envy someone it never works out be happy with what you have and will get in life if eveyrthing happens to her first good for her your just as special as she will ever be if she names her child your name fuck it name yours the same too and tell that kid good just make your child feel more special by saying your name was so fucken bad ass your ant gave it to her children

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