Is it normal to feel unwanted by your boyfriend?

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I am over weight women and I don't know if my boyfriend still finds me attracted. I ment him a couple of years ago and I feel in love. He was my first with EVERYTHING. He saids that I still look beautiful and am lucky to have some one who treats him the way he wants to be treated. I been working a lot of hours and when I come home I felt like he's not wanting me to be with him. I always ask him if he still loves me but he saids he does and will go to the ends of the earth for me but I felt different. He's a great guy and a great person but sometime woundered if he is happy with me?I am happy to be with him, Is this normal?

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49% Normal
Based on 69 votes (34 yes)
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  • simba1
    14 years ago

    I find it rather bizarre how you are pregnant with this guys child, and engaged to be married, and then you put a post on here like this???

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Pumpkin, is this your first story? It just says you all over it. If it is you should understand that if I recognise your writing among thousands I must care a little.

    If you look above, you will notice how your name isn't on it anywhere and your account doesn't show up yet so I am guessing this is you. I told you that you shouldn't worry about it and when we are both working heavy hours soon we will start going out more and doing the gym thing. Now please, stop worrying about it before someone kicks you for being so worried.

    Why the hell am I writing this, I should be talking to you in person. DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT. I told you before, you are fine so stop worrying.

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    • [Old Memory]
      14 years ago

      Also, job hunting sucks ass and even more ass if it is a job that requires so much education and it is more of a temporary job. I told you before, tax preparing is a necessary step in becoming something better and I had to do this first. I just don't have the energy to really go out and do a whole lot of stuff on the side.

      Plus, we are kinda broke until I start working so I have to go back to checking past "cold callings" for employment. Urg, sucks ass to struggle and it sucks even more ass that even if I am hired today, the job won't start until next month. Stupid necessary steps for enhancement in life but as you are sooooooo sick of me saying by now as you are always telling me

      "Anything worth having in life you have to work hard for."

      Lastly if this is you Pumpkin, we are going for a long walk today, I don't care if I have to drag you out, you are done feeling bad for yourself based upon your weight. So eh.

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      • [Old Memory]
        14 years ago

        Figures, when you called me I stated how I thought this was you and you confessed. Urg, does this at the very least show that I care but am honest enough with you that you don't have to worry about me not being honest with you.

        Other than that, this is the only story that you will do that I won't offer input on like this, just proving a point.

        Bigger point is why the hell am I writing this when I could just call you, see you later when you come home from your dads. Lastly, I need you to fax out to resume/cover letters for me as we do not have a fax machine but your work does. Thank you

        Bud

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        • Mindy
          13 years ago

          ?!

          Forgive me for intruding in your "private" conversation but I must say I am impressed with you, Bud. Your lady is very lucky to have a man like you.

          I wish you very good luck to you two as a couple and send you my blessings.

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  • kittyjibblets
    13 years ago

    if i'm not mistaken, bud wrote a story saying that he didn't find his gf appealing naked so the answer to your question is no. he doesn't find you physically attractive. i've read a few stories from both of you and your situation sounds a bit messed up. i don't know either of you and don't want to start something but it doesn't seem like you 2 are ready for marriage or a child. i would say give it up for adoption or something especially considering that it wasn't planned. it is probably the smartest thing to do to give the child the best life possible. also, maybe hold off on the whole marriage thing because neither of you seem to be sure that you love one another. anyways, good luck with whatever you end up doing...

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    • jamustheignoramus
      13 years ago

      Kittyjibblets, he/she is an unborn child, not a litter of puppies. You cannot simply 'give it up for adoption' like its worthless. Im sure these two care about each other and will love the baby no matter what. A lot of babies aren't planned. Don't worry, I'm sure it'll work out, its a common thing among couples, but he'll come through.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    It's not normal. Its pathetic drivel.

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  • NopeNotNormal
    13 years ago

    I find it difficult to believe that Bethany is American. She has the communication skills of a foreigner who's just landed here and doesn't know how to speak english, even slightly. And chloee, Bud doesn't have near perfect anything. He's an idiot, just not as severely.

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  • loverofbunnies
    14 years ago

    Thank you for your comments that you have respond. This makes me feel a lot better. ( I love you too Bud ;p )

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  • kenkun
    14 years ago

    I'll tell you something about men: when they say something, they always mean it.

    Even when they're cheating on you they mean it. Even when they're trying just to have a one night stand, they mean it. We wouldn't want an one night stand with someone we're not really attracted to.

    If he's with you, it's because he wants you. Unless, of course, your father made him marry you.

    If this dude above is your boyfriend, I'll tell you: he's a good guy. He wants you. And he wants to use that fax machine too, btw...

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