Is it normal to feel unwanted?

I feel like I am an unattractive person. Things about me and my past make me feel like no woman would ever want me. I am 31, unemployed, I still live at home, and I feel like I am ugly. I can't even look at myself in a mirror, without wanting to smash it. So, is it normal to feel this way?

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77% Normal
Based on 43 votes (33 yes)
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  • sillygirl77

    I don't know if it's normal or not, but *hugs* I'm sure you should give yourself more credit! Things are hard now, but you never know what will happen!!

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  • kookiesnkream

    you may feel that way. it is normal. sometimes i feel the same thing but pls dont be too focus on that. pay more attention on accepting yourself

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  • Dreimy18

    Sometimes I feel like that so what I do is I go out on a ride to some where or I get a photo book of me and look at all the good times I had in the past.

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  • CDmale4fem

    One BIG thing- Before others will like you or love you, You must be able to like or love yourself first. But I know the feeling, I'm mid 50's can't work right now, living in a camper, I can't drive, and no gf/Fwb/wife in my life, and I pretty much feel like a lump of shit on a log.

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  • genericallyanime

    stay optimistic!!! you're thinking about all the wrong things!

    focus on what you have, not what you don't have.

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  • RoseIsabella

    So try to work towards improving yourself.

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