Is it normal to feel unlovable

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Basically, All my friends have girlfriends at the moment, and they're all so happy etc, but when it comes to me, no one is ever interested.
Like I wouldn't say that in ugly, and even get complimented occasionally for my looks, but every time I get close with a girl I just get friend zoned. I don't know if there's something about me? But I've always thought I'm just like another average person, but I just don't do it for anyone... I'm 17 now and at this point in my life I just can't see, in the future, how anyone would love me, and why they would... Like it's hard to explain but I just feel like no one will ever look at me in 'that way'.

So yeah is this normal?

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Based on 31 votes (25 yes)
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  • Hey'sForHorses00
    7 years ago

    All my female friends have boyfriends too, but you know what? Just do you, boo.
    I find myself the happiest out of all my friends. Before you can love being in a relationship, you need to learn to love being single~

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    • Shackleford96
      7 years ago

      ^good advice right there.

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  • stebilli89
    7 years ago

    Completely normal. I felt this way for a year. I went to a music festival recently and met a random girl who was proper interested in me and it restored my faith that there are people out there attracted to me. Do the same - get out there, do stuff out of the ordinary. Out your comfort zone. You won't regret it. Good luck, dude.

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  • hamfish
    7 years ago

    I was in the same position as you when I was 17. Constantly friend zoned. It doesn't last forever. I've been with tons of chicks, despite my plain looks and low self esteem. Don't worry about it.

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago

    Read 'No More Mr. Nice Guy'. Lose weight, lift weights. Focus on your health and looks. You do this and you'll be fine.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      7 years ago

      Okay, although I don't think j need to lose weight

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      • hamfish
        7 years ago

        I think he's a Roosh V fan.

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  • IMissMary
    7 years ago

    No big deal, although I can see how a young male can feel bad about not having a gf. Count yourself lucky actually

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  • Saggy_tits
    7 years ago

    If you feel "unlovable" well you probably are. If you tell people that you are they will almost certainly believe something like that.

    Being unlovable isn't terrible, life is short anyway, make the most of the time you have or waste it online or playing video games, OR maybe that isn't a waste to you...

    Only you know for sure. "Love" doesn't exist for everyone.

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