Is it normal to feel unlovable?

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I haven't been in a relationship in almost 4 years. I haven't been desperately searching for one, but I haven't been turning men away either. I am very aware of how I present myself socially, and have worked out a few of my own kinks in recent years. However, I still feel as if no men ever have an interest in dating me. I like to think that I am an attractive, young woman who takes care of herself and carries herself with respect. But all men ever want is to have sex and be done with it. I, of course, am not jumping into bed with these men left and right. I have had sex with a few men, but not that often. I have begun the dating process with some guys, but right as it is about to become an exclusive thing, they head for the hills. There has to be something wrong with what I am doing. Is this normal?

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  • stonecutters93
    12 years ago

    Funny I seem to have a similar situation to you. I've wanted to date a few girls but as soon I wanted to become exclusive they lost interest. You'll find the right guy one day, you just have to see him through the sea of assholes that only want to sleep with you and be gone.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Try looking for love in a place that men, who aren't afraid of commitment, hang at. The library is usually a good place. Also, you make polite conversation with some guys in your class I'm sure.

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