Is it normal to feel uncomfortable with pics of the ex in the house?

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A very simple question and would like your opinion:

My partner of 4 years has a number of pics of his ex, no problem there we all have a past.

But he has kept ones of them kissing and of her posing in her bikini. I really want him to get rid of these ones and also the 'special' cards saying how much she loved him.

Am I being 'over the top'? is it normal to keep pics of him and his ex kissing and of her posing in her bikini?

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Based on 63 votes (32 yes)
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  • Faceless
    12 years ago

    He hasnt moved on yet. Unless theyre super super gay best friends and all which I doubt, then its alright to have a couple normal pics of her up. Um... ask him howd he feel if you had the same passionate pics of your ex all over your place. Or you could always write 'whore' over her head in every picture shes in till he gets the idea. Id go with the latter. Ima jedi shaman. I know these things.

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    • Its_Called_Love
      12 years ago

      I have to say, I'd react the same way, but I seriously have no idea why you'd let this go on for 4 years!

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      • Anonymous Post Author
        12 years ago

        Because I kept hoping he would get rid of them himself, I mean really he should be the one taking responsibility for respecting me and our relationship. Not waiting for me to say what is appropriate or not.

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  • ChrissySnow
    2 years ago

    Normal. I feel conflicted at times on it but since my ex's have pics and vid of me it just seems fair for my husband to still get to keep pics and vid of his ex's too.

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  • misslogical
    12 years ago

    I had that same problem he was 42 but cute and young looking and I was 23 beautiful anyways he had a box of keepsakes...like his wedding pictures wedding invitations, previous babys mommas pics and love letters that he wrote his ex wife in jail with drawings I was pissed bcuz I could tell he wasn't over the old ugly bitches especially his big gapped teeth ex wife that bitch was super ugly anyway he only married her bcuz she took care of his child molesting ass...yeah his mugshot picture was in there too!!!I lefted him alone after that

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  • xxxlostxxxforeverxxx
    12 years ago

    no. not normal at all.

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    No.

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  • Its_Called_Love
    12 years ago

    I didn't vote because your title is "Is it normal to feel uncomfortable with pics of the ex in the house?", which is perfectly understandable. Then the question you end with is "IIN to keep pics of him and his ex kissing and of her posing in her bikini?" which is weird and I would confront him a hundred precent about it. Thought I'd point it out...

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Yeah I realised that after it had been moderated lol.

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  • suze1000
    12 years ago

    NO IT IS NOT NORMAL>
    That is all.

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