Is it normal to feel uncomfortable when people hit on me?

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Whenever I get hit on I begin to feel really uncomfortable and kind of unsafe. I immediately try to think of a way to get out of the situation, even if I find the guy to be somewhat attractive.

But I often find myself more comfortable being the one asking a guy out or trying to get his attention. Is it normal?

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Based on 48 votes (41 yes)
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  • DrPasty
    13 years ago

    I feel the same way. Once I feel like someone is hitting on me, my responses become a bit insulting...like I'm subconsciously trying to scare them away. XD I have a high success rate too.

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  • Shifter
    13 years ago

    Hmmm is it because you don't like the attention been on you? I find that when somebody says something flattering about me I feel really self concious and aware of people around me, i worry that everyone is looking at me and don't want to be there anymore... or is it me thats the abnormal one? haha

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      SAME!

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  • 1badassog&AA
    9 years ago

    Its not uncommon to feel like you do. Just try to see that he likes you enough to step out on that limb and that's not always easy. If you saw off that limb it will be harder for him to step out on one again. Try to be kind please ;)

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  • Sweetz
    12 years ago

    Yea its awkward!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I get pissed off if I get hit on, but that's because I'm in a relationship.

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