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when i am walking anywhere, and guys do not look at me i feel ugly. but when they do look at me i feel attractive. it gets to the point where i get really, really down if i have not been looked at in a while.. (as in a few minutes)
I agree with Jake .. I think a lotta guys developed their checking out techniques to a point it makes it seem that we don't even notice there's a girl in the room :-) ..
Yea, it's normal to feel this way. I used to be like this, but now I don't care! I know I'm not the most feminine girl out there (height + personality wise). So, I don't even worry about guys not looking at me. The attention usually comes from guys I don't like, anyways.
Ok, sounds like your confidence is up and down. (duh). First off if a guy looks at you, that dosent mean their cheking you out. The may be. Second, if they don't look at you don't feel bad. It's not the end of the world. Theyay have not seen you or such and such. Or maybe they are checking you out and you didn't notice. You get checked out more than you think it's whether you are paying attention or not. I say don't worry about small worthless things. It becomes abhazard to your mental and physical health. Imo it sounds like a mild case of OCD. Yes people can be OCD about anything. Just becareful and relax. I bet you are getting checked out all the time you just fail to see half of them.
For the most part I like to think I am not a very vain person, but I do this too. I always get a boost when a guy tries to hit on me, even if I'm not really interested in him. Its normal.
I know how you feel. I really hate it when I hear guys talking about other girls. I'm always thinking, "what about me?!"
I sometimes felt like that, until I found out a family friend aged nearly 40 fancied me when I was 16, told his wife, got divorced and now with a girl my age... 21.
Be careful when craving attention.