Is it normal to feel ugly and fat?

I feel as though I will never be beautiful at least not until I have fit arms skinny body and nice legs. it's not that I'm fat bcause I have rlly nice, sculpted legs, but my stomach is a bit chubby and I have these ridicouloys C36 size boobs on my chest. I also have mild acne on my chin I feel ugly everytime I see a girl with skin that's better lookin then mine IIN???

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  • thatsfunnyshit

    Walk around topless, no one will notice if your belly is a "bit chubby".

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  • You're really lucky to have C36 boobs.

    Other than that I know how you feel. I used to have bad acne. You should start steaming your face and/or use black soap. That stuff work for me but you have to put it in your routine. It should work quite fast though because I'm shit at routines and I saw results.

    As for the pudgy tummy...I guess you should learn to accept it. I'm learning to accept mine. If you don't want to I suggest you try dieting (which is hard for me) or take pills that curb your appetite and drink tea that make you -ahem- shit.

    I use to and still have my fair share of feeling ugly on some days. I completely understand but try not to compare yourself to other people.

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  • YumInsanity

    That's not normal at all, most people feel beautiful and are really happy with themselves

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  • Road2nowhere

    Im male, so obviously I can only say I understand part of what you have written :)

    About the acne thing ? it can depend mostly on your age, and also how your own skin and body want to behave. I had that problem, for years when younger. You know what was doing it for me ?

    1) using cleaning stuff my body didn't like and
    2) touching my own skin.

    Best advice I can give is, keep your finger nails AWAY from your skin, seriously, I still find I touch but the less I do, the less it happens, and i can get clean real fast (skin does need moisturising though, i find Aqueous Cream best for that). Long nails attract the germs that trigger it off I found too.

    Things to cleans skin never made a difference for me at all, and still dont. I'd never had any greasy skin, black dots or much else, just other problems.

    As for your body ? Eat sensibly. DO NOT stress over it, you are who you are. Unless you intend to be on display in front of the world, it really will not matter, just enjoy being who you are naturally.

    Mostly its a fear of attraction failing, but very few men will hate you for being slightly overweight, though finding one who will admit it is rare.

    Who wants to hug a stick ? lol (i'm being serious actually!!)

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  • I know exactly how you feel. First off, DO NOTTT be ashamed of your breasts! Even if people make fun of you for it, they will be worshiped later, haha. I was made fun of for mine a little in elementary school, but now that I'm in high school no one's laughing anymore (; And don't pick at your body like that. If a man truly loves you, he'll love you for you. And I know you hear it all of the time, but it's totally true! The way your talking, you have a really nice, acceptable body that's average. I'm average too! And statistics show that most men like average women. It shows that their more healthy, and not bony and malnourished. If ANYONE doesn't like you by your appearance, kick them out of your life. **Only surround yourself with people you enjoy.** If anyone brings you down, they don't need to be in your life, because you only have one. Why not make it happy?(:

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  • joybird

    I've found that it's only women who stress about their tummies, men don't notice or care - so don't worry about that part of you! I'd say they admire your boobs and I'm sure everyone your age has a little acne.

    There are thousands of people worse off than you - some can't walk, have scars, facial birthmarks, etc ... so put your little problems into perspective and cheer up.

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  • People usually view you differently than you view yourself. This I'm just starting to learn. You sound beautiful and I'm sure I'm not the only one who would agree. I don't think you should stress over how great you body looks, or how "perfect" it should be because I guarantee you that not all guys care about looks. Its really the individuals personality than brings them into the equation of whether they're beautiful or not.

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  • Tshwanza

    Its normal, i feel ugly sometimes especialy when im at school or infront of a beautiful girl...i like it when i feel cute

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  • bananaface ^^ well duh!! I do alot im trying to get thin I'm working on it...

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  • bananaface

    Exercise then?

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  • sugarbunny772

    i hear sometimes i feel the same too i don't like the feeling i had the worst reaction to horse tail silica pills and that made my face red as hell and i broke out big it was soo not attractive. About the tummy issue, i have the perfect solution and beleieve me i know because i tried it and i'm still on it,you should take feiyan chinese tea with the pills that go with it-will acuse some dhiorhea on the first week but then things will go smooth and you'll loose weight,you drop approximately 1 stone in 3 weeks which is amazing (that's the average) everybody differs depending on their body. here's the link to purchasing it online http://www.springherb.co.uk/Fei_Yan_Slimming_Tea_40_Tea_Bags.html If you want a really quick solution then try wearing a corset untill you have that weight off. Well,it's what i do. Hope that hep and best of luck.

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  • woshijianadaren

    I don't think you have to worry about it much. Most guys (well I do) find 99% of girls attractive, girls are the good looking gender, so don't sweat it too much.

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    • YumInsanity

      What the fuck, where did you get that statistic? People can be ugly as fuck regardless of gender, have some respect for yourself

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  • catywompus

    Don't be so hard on yourself. If you want to be more fit, be more fit. If you eat healthier you may notice your skin clearing up. Healthy food and lots of water. Good skin starts on the inside. I've cut out meat and most dairy from my diet and my skin has gotten better. Now if I just nixed the sugar I'd be even happier. But I must say, I envy beautiful skin.

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  • Geneva5

    Maybe you are actually fat and ugly ?

    Who cares ?

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