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I feel Ugly all the time, especially when I'm in front of people or in the mirror, that's why I always hide, and people say I'm shy, but truth is I'm Ugly. And it makes me just want to cry all day in my room, admiring the beautiful Girls and Guys we have a t school...
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If u feel ugly. Then ur gonna act ugly. If u convince yourself your good or okay looking. Then your gonna look good. U have to believe it in your head first. And then try to dress or style your hair accordingly. 99% of celebrities are the ugliest sons of bitches out there. But they hide it with LAYERS of makeup and fake hair. No one is ugly. Were all just normal looking. <3
Beauty is a matter of convention. But more importantly, beauty is based on such things as perfect facial symmetry, Proportions of the facial features, and other factors. If you approach close to perfection you begin to lose your "humanness" and begin to look artificial like a Barbie Doll or Mitt Romney.
In other words, you look plastic and plastic isn't real. It makes you look like you have no character, that you communicate like an etch a sketch and change your opinions depending on the wind direction.
I would a thousand times rather have a woman who is real, human, and sexy than to have some plastic, unreal woman who invariably says what she thinks I want to hear, no matter how devastating her beauty is.
You can learn to develop your personality. This is not really that difficult if you work at it. There are books and that can lead you through it. Just looking into a guy's eyes and listening intently as he tells you how a reciprocating engine works will cause him to see you as beautiful.
When I was courting my wife, she used to just listen to me as though she were enthralled by my words and thought I really knew my stuff. After we were married, I suddenly realized what she had been doing and I was incredulous that I had fallen for it hook, line and sinker.
Most of us worry about being beautiful when we are
of school age. You will probably come out better than many of those beautiful guys and girls at school with a little effort.
Relax and don't let your opinion about your looks overpower you.
Beauty is not the most important thing and maybe you are not even ugly, maybe you're just lacking in the self-esteem department.
;D I know it's hard but try not to think about this too much and enjoy life.
Who knows, you may change your mind about the way you look.
Best wishes!
It's sadly normal.
Society is fucked. If people have low self-esteem, than society is like be proud of yourself, but if people are proud of themselves already than society calls them bitches & slags.
It's a mind fuck every where you go. I tend to stay kinda neutral, but I really don't like the way I look ether....
Believe me when I say that there is someone out there for you. Even if your ugly your personality can shine through. Honestly though it sounds like you give yourself too little credit.