Is it normal to feel torn like this?

Talk to her before you tell your mom because when I lost my virginity my sister told my mom and the whole school and I was so mad at her and embarrassed and upset

Just because you made a mistake, doesn't mean she will follow you 100%. Hopefully you've been leading by example.

It's totally not your business. I would leave it alone.

leave em alone. They love each other

Do that with all my bfs. U need there to be rules and boundaries to be made

Dang where r ure parents they seem oblivious. My parents would never let me be alone at my house with a guy back in high school days. Im22 they still

Who cares? They've been together for two years? They're having sex.

It's completely normal that u want to protect her and I know that feeling all to well do u feel kind of disappointed & a little hurt? I have that feeling to with my little sister and cousin when I found out they were having sex I was so hurt, it's because u still think of her as ur baby sister & truth is she's growing up and in a few years she'll be grow... Maybe her & her bf did have sex & it was her first time u and I know that's special & maybe this guy is her first love... Yea it may be shocking but one thing u never want to do is rat on ur baby sister ur the big sister and she looks up to u so telling on her would be like throwing the trust between u 2 out the window.. Best thing 4 u to do is try and talk to her so she feels open enough to come talk to u about the sex she may or may not have had... Also her & her bf could've been just playing around, making out, or even doing something other than sex. Truthfully when I was in High School everyone figured I was having sex, because I dresses sexy, had boyfriends, and of course stupid boys making up rumors, but I wasn't I did have sex until a year after I graduated high school... I was too scared, still kinda immature, I wanted my 1st time to be with someone special and it was...bad thing is my older sister told mom that I was having sex & I wasn't and my mom told my dad & that really hurt in high school ur already dealing with enough, but for ur parents especially ur father to know ur having sex makes u feel bad & disgusting like u let them down.. So just try and build relationship where she feels comfortable talking to u... Hey she might still be a virgin, but u find out she sleeping with multiple partners, having unprotected sex, or going wild then u tell ur mom... After mi sister told my parents what she thought to be true we still r close but I never forgot that & idk if I'll ever forgive her for doing that to me... Hope this helps...

What a prick. Talk to your sister first. Be very open and non confrontational. I dunno your parents but many I know would make it way worse.

i think that its perfectly normal to be worried but you should talk with ur sister and approach the subject with care dont accuse or talk about what you did just ask first then the what to do from there can be a queastion you ask me if ur curious. ive been through this before.

Stay out if it, you may be the only one she trusts someday, for real advice and guidance, no reason to waste that opportunity.

Maybe they were making out and fooling around.