Is it normal to feel this way with every guy?

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Okay, so like, I find a guy I like and during the ‘chase’ of it - I fall for him, etc etc. Then we get into a relationship and I get so disinterested? (If we end up breaking up, I get jealous whenever their attention is on another girl, even if I don’t like him.) Is this normal, or what - COULD I BE GAY, LIKE LEGIT. COULD I BE A LESBAIN?? IS THIS WHY I GET SO UNINTERESTED WITH GUYS SO QUICKLY?
okay, thanks!

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    You'll either grow out of it or spend your life having very short term sexual relationships. It's easy to mistake the excitement of being with someone new for true love, but that doesn't mean that's what it is.

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  • hungDaddy
    5 years ago

    This is normal! We're not all tailored to feel love; sometimes lust is the best option. That might help why you're jealous even though you're not with the person anymore.

    But I mean about being lesbian, maybe that is why? I used to be super promiscuous with guys, then I tried one girl and never looked back!!! hahaha I hope you're able to find yourself though, but don't be afraid to try other people.

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  • BlueAlice
    5 years ago

    Maybe you're aromantic/greyromantic?

    Does it feel like a chore or a performance once you're in a relationship with someone?

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    • ichthyocoprolite
      5 years ago

      I personally don't think so, all that aromanticism entails is not feeling the romantic attraction in the first place. She said that she starts to like him and then falls for him, which rules out the aromanticism.

      @OP I think you might be idolizing the guys you like before you get into the relationship, and then once you do, reality hits and you realize they're not as perfect as you thought. Does this sound right? I could be wrong, that is just my personal opinion and I'm not exactly a psychologist.

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      • BlueAlice
        5 years ago

        What I have found is that a romantics can perform. Romance of they don't know they're aro

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  • MasterChives
    5 years ago

    Eat some pussy.

    See how you feel.

    Personally I think you may just want someone who can give you more than the average man.

    Coz I tells ya.

    If he was a rich football player or some shit you wouldn't be complaining. Sippin' on champers and doing lines.

    Aaaand just like that.. Chives is depressed he broke his legs during tryouts for Liverpool FC.

    Thats right. I broke both of them... at the same time.. I didn't even know that was possible.. It was BRUTAL!

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    • imxdiii
      5 years ago

      uh.

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