Is it normal to feel this way when you like someone ?

My sister is doing a play this week she has a crush on a guy it's her favorite musical he's playing her favorite character. She said he's doing a really good job at it. She took pictures of the cast tonight she got one of him and her and a really good one of him on stage. He's older than her. She's only 23 he's probably 30 or 40. She doesn't know how old he is. She's shy to talk to him. She's been having dreams of her and him. She thinks it means something. Whenever she's near him she gets a funny feeling in her stomach in a good way. She's scared to tell him. She's never told a guy she liked him before. She's not even sure if he's single. He seems like a nice guy. She said he smiles at her when he's on stage. They tried on they're costumes the first time tonight she said he looks cute in his costume. She hasn't told him yet. She can't even talk to him. Is it normal to feel this way about someone ? How can she tell him she likes him and she wants to know if the dreams she's having mean something ?

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  • Digsbie

    Its called a crush, perfectly normal

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  • Ratman2

    I hate to agree with a certain comment to this post but the shy female thing is a big turn off for a lot of guys. Especially in an artistic atmosphere such as that in a theater group. He may see her as too young for him. For a guy pushing 40 a 23 year old signifies a lot of off stage drama that he is in no way interested in experiencing. Again. I would suggest that your sister make some subtle moves to let this guy know how she feels about him. Nothing improper or over the top, mind you. This will only scare him away. But clearly, she needs to make the first move. Even then it's just a toss up. The guy could be in a serious relationship. But she needs to be more assertive here. And then let the chips fall where they may.

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  • Tempest-au

    Well, if she is "too shy", she might as well give up now. Unless this guy knows she likes him, he probably won't approach her and offer her the information she seeks (is he in a relationship, how old he is, does he even like women that way). Personally I find shy women a bit of a turn off, as even if you approach them you just about need a block and tackle to drag a conversation out of them.

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  • MarionWeasley

    I don't see why that's not normal, tell her to watch how he is when she is around, if he smiled etc.,if he does weird stuff around her (such as smile at her or look at her very often) then she probably should go and confense, it's called love for a reason because love is complicated...

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    • MarionWeasley

      *if he smiles

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  • Azaman

    She

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