Is it normal to feel this way? what should i do...

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... so my birthday is next month and I just feel like life is passing by. This summer is hard I guesse I dont have a lot of friends and Im dealing with a lot of insecurities right now. I want to be a better person on the inside if you know what I mean, when ever I am in a friendship or relationship it's hard for me I feel like I'm always on the edge of losing that person or they will just bail out on me. Do you have any suggestions?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    People bail. Shit happens.

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  • annm2361
    11 years ago

    Find friends like u I have ups and downs to.

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  • greenboarder89
    13 years ago

    You sound like an insecure person who needs other things to make you happy. In my opinion, you need to be able to go on with your life independent and strong without relying on that friendship or relationship. What's the enjoyment in having one of those if you always feel on the edge of losing it? Be okay with yourself, and then everything that comes in life will be an added bonus but will not be something you can't survive without. I also do not have any friends and do not like many people but i try to cope with my situation.

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  • ven067
    13 years ago

    Sometimes people just get depressed. I know I sometimes do. I just get depressed and have a pessimistic view of things sometimes so yes this is normal to think these things. To not really believe people will be there and that life is horrible or what not.
    But eventually I'm sure this will pass. If not maybe you can see a doctor or something and maybe he can recommend a therapist. But I doubt you need one.
    Try to think about happier things and have a little faith in people.

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