Is it normal to feel this way towards someone who is only a friend?

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I have had many best girlfriends in my life, and recently I met the mOst amazing person ever. We have so much fun together and I really like her. I am a female and I love men and am completely anti lesbian but I think I am in love with her. Is it normal to feel so strong about someone like this even if it is not a romantic relationship or am I just weird?

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  • Sweetgirl75
    11 years ago

    I've had the same issue. But with me I was in love with her.
    You have to think about it very well. Do you feel butterflies when you think about her, do you blush when she speaks to you and do you like her more than normal friends? Then you're in love. If not, you are just good friends.

    If you are in love, it's your own choice of telling it or not. If you do tell it, the friendship may be over, so be careful.

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  • Ryan556
    11 years ago

    Dude dudeet um have you just come out of puberty cause that can happen

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  • NotFloydzie
    11 years ago

    I think you need to be more specific. What is it about this person that you like so much? What are the qualities they have that you feel "attracted" to her? Why do you think you're falling in love with her?

    I'm just asking because you might be confusing a lesbian crush vs. admiring someone as a good friend.

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