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I have been battling with myself over my sexuality. Is it normal to not know if you are straight, gay, bi, or something else along those lines? I normally try taking quizzes to see what I am but everyone I get a different answer. Is it normal to be so confused and unknowing of my sexuality?
Labels, schmabels. Hopefully you see as you get older that there is no need for labels. You are who you are. You like what and who you like. No biggie babe, it really isn't, and those who pass judgment because of it are asswipes. We need toilet paper but not of the human variety.
Don't worry about the labels, the current ones (straight, gay, bi) barely scratch the surface of sexuality. You like what you like, don't try and conform to a label. If you are unsure of what you like, try and think about what turns you on and go from there. If you can't think of anything, you may just need to go out and experience sex yourself and find what you enjoy. If still nothing, you may be asexual (no desire for sex).
It's ok, I don't really know what my sexuality is either. I just say I'm bi to cover all the bases (well, I know that pansexual would probably be a better descriptor given my enjoyment of androgyny/cross dressers, but I like the term bisexual more).