Is it normal to feel this way in general?

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I'm a college freshmen. I'm a male, kind of out going. well, my story is about this girl in my dorm. she lives in the same floor as mine and we talk to each other everyday. we've known each other only about 3 months, but we became like the best guy-girl friend. we eat lunch and dinner together, talk about many stuff, and study together while enjoying eating nacho together. I like how I made a friend like her. the problem is, I feel like I like her. I think of her a lot and I just want to just be with her. but then she talks about a lot of other guys (she's not slutty at all, she's more like a cute innocent shy girl), so I feel like I shouldn't like her and deny the fact that I might have feelings for her. I don't want ruin our best friend relation just because of my feelings. I kind of feel like she might like me also, seeing how she stop by my room (I have single, she has double room) and ask me to eat, study, or just ask me to come over. well, we don't usually just do those by ourselves, but sometimes, she only invites me while we have a lot of good friends in our dorm. I know I'm over thinking but I am just lost. can anyone give me advice?

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  • Sillygoose
    12 years ago

    I hate everyone.

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  • MissClaire
    12 years ago

    Sounds like she wants to just be friends.

    If your noticing those slight signals of her only inviting you into her dorm when there is other good friends around you would notice if she was into you.

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  • chubbawubba69
    12 years ago

    This isn't really a question of being normal. I am well beyond my college years and would tell you just to go for it. Opposite sex friendships rarely remain close into mature adulthood. Once you are in a serious long-term relationship or married to someone else, friendships with those of the opposite sex almost always change and become more distant.

    I would recommend going for it because you probably won't be close friends in another 4 or 5 years.

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  • Who_Fan4Life
    12 years ago

    Show her your dong.

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  • JustDave
    12 years ago

    If you don't tell her about the feelings you have for her, you will end up listening to her tell you all about some wonderful guy she met & is now dating. Then you'll have to pretend you're just so damn happy for her while you secretly wish you were that guy. I've been there.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Never confuse kindness with flirtation. I suggests casually dropping the idea, that you two have a relationship beyond that of friends, next time you're alone with her. I honestly hope it goes well and if it doesn't then try to keep the friendship.

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