Is it normal to feel this way abt my ex sleepin around?

We've been together for 5 years but the last one, things but constantly spiraled. With him working and me being astay at home mom, everything got too stressful between us. He was terrible and in return I was terrible back. In late January, maybe the last day or 2, I proposed a break up. I didn't want to leave him but he'd destroyed my house, it has tons of holes, giant and small. He was terrible alllday evrday to me. But when he was sweet, usually and mostly just sexually, he was the sweetest and he often used a guilt trip on me to help blindme from the bad.

Anyway anyway, so a week into February we officially split (tho he had no money to move out and guilt tripped me into letting him stay til his next paycheck which turned into ..well he's till here

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Comments ( 5 )
  • thegypsysailor

    Wow, you are a soft touch, aren't you?
    He sure as shit ain't your ex if he's still living under your roof and probably on your money, too. Obviously, the sex is worth the pain, so you aren't ever going to have any self respect and stand up to him and kick him out.
    Normal? Honestly, you don't know? Watch Lifetime movies more.

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  • spankrocket

    Your not the only one, people can be cruel

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  • Terence_the_viking

    ERMAGUD he's playing you for a fool he doesn't give a shit about you kick the fucker out.

    or

    Go on Jerry Springer.

    Jerry Jerry Jerry Jerry.

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  • RoseIsabella

    He's a piece of shit manipulator.

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  • Ellenna

    He's got you where he wants you, hasn't he? Time for you to grow some self-respect and get him out of your home.

    Of course, he's "sweet" (ie manipulative) when he wants something, that's what arseholes do to people who let them get away with it

    Come on darlin, you know you deserve better than this!

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