Is it normal to feel this way about him

This guy always flirts with me but has a girlfriend of almost two years and we really have a connection and I like him...a lot. I would never break them up but I was wondering why? I mean he always hangs out with me and we even got in trouble for talking and flirting I just can't get him out of my head..and I think I may love him..help please.

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Based on 58 votes (40 yes)
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  • karmasAbich

    Have some respect for his girlfriend. 85% of relationships made out of infedelity don't last. Respectfully decline any request he has to be with you. He is in a relationship, he shouldn't be acting this way or perhaps you may be misinterpreting the situation. Be the biggerr person by waiting until he is single to go after him, or find someone else. Sorry for being blunt, im getting sleepy.

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  • ChasingAfterPond<3

    I would just back out of this one right now. He is in a relationship of two years. It seems that he is planning to be unfaithful with you, which if you two ended up being together would have to consider. If he is willing to cheat on her and flirt with you while he dates her, what makes you believe that he wouldn't do the same to you? Sorry, I'm not trying to be mean, I'm trying to be honest. Don't try to interfere with their relationship. If he wants to be with you, he would break up with his girlfriend, without you influencing him, and he would date you. Just don't flirt with him and back off because it isn't fair to his girlfriend of 2 years.

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  • TVDFan(

    I would never ever cheat! Ever. Because I believe if theyd do it with me they'd do it to me and the once a cheater always a cheater.

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  • surefriends

    that feeling. that's the feeling right before you let yourself be taken advantage of.

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  • blaster

    We always seem to be with the wrong person , dunno how that f'n works.
    I see some good old stats came in at the top , anything they don't have stats on these days??????
    I dunno , but it happens to me all the time , me answers sorry , there's always someone else or some f'n problem

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  • TVDFan(

    I would never break them up and I never go up to him to talk he always comes up to me. And we got in trouble by talking when we weren't suppose to. It wasn't anything bad. I dont mess with their relationship I leave it alone.

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  • suckonthis9

    It is acceptable to be FRIENDS with him. My opinion is that you should be concerned about the flirtations. You had stated that you, "got in trouble". Did you have an altercation with his girlfriend? What were your conversations about that caused this?

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